Author Archives: Alan Ilagan

Dazzler of the Day: Beau Mirchoff

There has been a dearth of shirtless beauty here of late, as the other joys of summer have taken over – the flowers and gardens and birds and bees – so let’s return to some good old-fashioned gratuitous shirtless male celebrities with this Dazzler of the Day. Ladies and gentlemen and those who have yet to make up their minds, I give you Beau Mirchoff. Appearing in ‘Now Apocalypse’, ‘Good Trouble’ and ‘Awkward’, Mirchoff certainly gives good face, and he’s been building a movie and television career to earn all the accolades that such beauty often promises but doesn’t always deliver. 

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A Favorite Returns in Bold Form

This is the time of the year when the cup plant comes into its own. Having established several large clumps in our yard, we have islands of sky-high yellow blooms to which gold finches and butterflies flock from miles around. Not only do the flowers provide nectar and color, the leaves form little cups where they emerge from the strong stems, collecting rainwater and offering it to the birds for a complete buffet. It’s one of the most charming things the summer garden provides

The plant itself makes a bold statement in size and stature, but the flowers are small and dainty, fluttering high above the stems to reach for the sun. They are especially striking against a blue sky. 

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Dazzler of the Day: Linda Eder

She was the absolute best reason to see the original Broadway run of ‘Jekyll & Hyde’ in the late 90’s, and ever since witnessing her slay as Lucy in that show I’ve been a die-hard Linda Eder fan. Throughout a career of impeccable studio albums and incendiary live performances, her talent has led to one success after another. I still recall a Valentine’s Day show she did at Proctor’s – she practically raised the roof with her stellar belt and breath control. A force of nature, capable of piercing ferocity or dove-like coos, she tells stories through her delivery – stories that shimmer and sparkle in the expert way she flexes her vocal skills. She easily earns this Dazzler of the Day, and I’m going to catch her on one of her upcoming tour dates. Check it all out at her website here. 

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The Persistence of the Petunia

My pessimistic side – sometimes the only side I have to display – chalked up the loss to the acceptance of a cute bunny that ate almost all of the first leaves of these petunia plants – but pessimism joyfully lost out to summer persistence. Here is that ravaged batch of petunias, now in full and glorious bloom. They had been making quiet strides of healing and growth, sending out new leaves and buds, as if reinvigorated by their harsh pruning so early in the season – a game of catch-up and bloom like it’s not going to last. 

The bunny did its bit of damage, but there’s now a groundhog on the loose, so this pretty scene is probably of very-limited duration. I will take it and offer gratitude for as long as its prettiness lasts. A lesson of the fleeting nature of summer, perhaps felt more keenly than in any other season. 

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A Recap in Mid-July

Never has summer moved more swiftly than this one – and so many wonderful things have already happened that I seek ways to slow down and inhabit the moment. I understand quite profoundly that it will likely never be quite like this again, and I hold the minutes closer. To that end, a recap of the previous week…

A visit from this birthday boy rekindled happy memories, and well over a double decade of friendship moments. 

While July is releasing some of it stifling heat and humidity, there are ways to stay fresh and cool, starting with a yard full of ferns

A bright refreshing thirst-quencher entirely devoid of alcohol is this year’s summer mocktail, the Calamansi Cooler

This is what I do – I push people – especially if it’s in the name of meditation

Summer is so often about the big and brash and bold, we forget that the smaller, quieter moments are just as important

A brief snippet of a post – no more than an echo really, a whisper. 

A bit of business, as my agency is currently recruiting for a few very important positions

When the world seems to have lost it bearings, there are still things that happen every year at around the same time, and the blooming of this balloon flower is one of those happy events

The full Buck Moon should have switched out the ‘B’ for an ‘F’ because all sorts of full-moon mayhem occurred

A bamboo summer should be calm and contemplative, inviting serenity and tranquility, carving out the place for peace and contentment. 

Off of their prairie home turf, certain queens falter and flail, and I can completely empathize. 

The week ended, and began, with this butterfly’s lesson, which managed to be tattered, torn, and anything but tragic. 

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Tattered, Torn and Anything But Tragic

From a distance, it was splendor and enchantment – a semi-circle of cream tinged with spots of Robin’s egg blue and hints of rust. Fluttering from the Korean lilac to the ostrich fern and back again, it charmed on this sunny summer day, demanding a closer inspection, demanding a second look. Butterflies often play this game.

When I approached, it didn’t flit away like they often will. Instead, it paused for me to see its tattered and torn wings, the way pieces of it were missing, the way it was incomplete. Undulating its wings gently, it seemed to rest there with a certain weariness, not able to garnish the energy to fly swiftly away. 

The world isn’t always kind to pretty things.  

How it came to be in such a state, we will never know. Maybe it was some terrible storm that knocked it about, flinging it into brush and debris and ripping apart some of its decoration. Maybe a hungry bird pecked away at it before giving up, the pattern working its magic of confusing the predator, allowing the butterfly to escape without damage to its vital organs. Maybe it wound itself into a thorny predicament where the only way out was to rip some of itself off to get out. I can empathize with all of those scenarios. 

The world isn’t always kind to many things. 

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A Queen Faltering

This lovely pink/peach-hued cloud of a flower cluster belongs to the Filipendula. More commonly known as the Queen of the Prairie, she holds these flower umbrels high above the prairie, upwards of five feet tall. She attains such size and stature when afforded a wet and consistently moist piece of land. 

A few years ago I planted this one, and didn’t give her the extra water and care she wanted/needed, so she survived but didn’t thrive. She would return, sending out runners to different locations (never a desirable trait for a struct Virgo gardener, but entirely understandable in a difficult prairie situation). When other plants in her proximity demanded more water, she finally got her happy place and started blooming like this. 

That said, those haphazard and unpredictable runners had her popping up all over the place, including at the very front of the border, reserved for smaller edging plants and not conducive to something of this size. I allowed her a few seasons of this, but we’re at the point where all these not-so-little stalks simply have to be pulled. 

Another drawback is that without staking, some of the tall stalks end up falling over. If not corrected immediately they will simply bend upward, contorting into all sorts of weird and undesirable angles. With all these issues, I may have to gift this one to someone with an actual prairie where she can roam freely and unfettered. 

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Bamboo Summer

Our collection of ferns gets all the credit for the tranquility they conjure even on the hottest summer days, the same magic could be claimed by the fountain bamboo, which cradles raindrops and morning dew in exquisite beauty to rival the finest fern. When Andy and I first moved into our home in 2002, I promptly planted two fountain bamboo plants. It took a couple years, but they eventually grew into the gracefully arching clumps for which the fountain bamboo is rightly renowned. They softened the corners of our new house, each creating a calm turn along the garden border. It was a marvelous effect, but it was not to last. 

The fountain bamboo flowers once in its lifetime, then promptly fades out from all the effort. This bloom cycle only happens after about 100 years, and it turned out that the plants we had were from this batch. The flowering happens across the world, and masses of fountain bamboos were dying off in a period of a few seasons. It was sad to see them go, and I waited a few more years before trying to plant new ones, in the hope of avoiding such a scenario for another hundred years. 

The bamboo evokes centuries of history, as it should considering it’s once-a-century blooming cycle. Some plants have memories that stretch back longer than the lives of most people. They have seen the world in all its iterations, and they watch silently, without judgment or condemnation. I like such history, and such knowledge. It lends the garden a certain gravitas that should be respected. Plants are so often much more resilient than people. It is unlikely that we will be alive when these bamboos flower, and there is acceptance and resolve in that if you remain calm about it. The good part about planting new fountain bamboo is that we are just at the start of another hundred-year-journey. There’s all the hope in the world when you put it into that perspective. 

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Moon & Sky at Dusk

Andy and I have been having Sunday dinners with my parents for quite some time – a practice Mom suggested a couple of years ago, to keep us all together and intact. Covid wreaked its havoc with that, but for over a year we’ve been going over every Sunday night, and I’m grateful for Andy for doing the drive and offering whatever food we can bring. 

Last week I didn’t get back into town until later on Sunday, so we pushed our dinner back a night to Monday. On the way back home, I caught these pics of the moon and sky – before realizing we were about to have a full supermoon – the Buck Moon – on Wednesday. I should have known, as Dad was off the past few days, as was work, and both seem to coincide with the full moon. 

Hopefully things will calm the Buck down for the next few weeks. 

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The Perennial Post

One of our unheralded performers, despite years of neglect (I’ve often forgotten about it completely until it sends out this balloon signal) is the balloon flower seen here. It reliably sends up a single unremarkable stalk of green on the late side of spring. By the time it appears, most other plants have filled in and hidden it from notice. 

Then in July, and quite consistently, it sends up a bloom or two, presaged by the balloon bud you will see below. It’s an exquisite pattern that I’ve come to rely on, even if I don’t give it the attention, care-wise, that it deserves. Every year I promise to do better, and every year I fail to remember. 

Still it blooms, generously providing this mid-season beauty even when we don’t always deserve it. There’s a lesson of grace in that, and it’s one that I’m trying to learn. Bloom – no matter how badly you are ignored or treated – just bloom. 

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Recruiting Officers and Rangers

Living in a law enforcement household has given me a glimpse into how challenging, important, and rewarding such service can be. While Andy retired many years ago, he’s maintained contact and friendships with those he once worked with, and I’ve seen the loyalty, care, and value of those relationships – and it’s something that results from being passionate about your job, and sharing that commitment with others. 

The agency where I currently work – the New York State Department of Environmental Conservation – is seeking out applicants for our Forest Ranger and Environmental Conservation Police Officer positions. They recently revised the qualifications, so if you’ve shied away from this exam in the past give it a fresh look and see if you or anyone you know would qualify and be interested in pursuing these vital positions. This is the link to the exam announcement

In order to truly represent the interests and concerns of all New Yorkers, we are seeking a broad and diverse candidate field. Our Governor has also initiated a ’30 by 30′ goal, which aims to expand the number of women in law enforcement to 30% of the total by the year 2030. If you or someone you know has what it takes to rise to the challenge, and if they want to make a difference while supporting our mission of Environmental Conservation, I encourage you to apply. Please note that the deadline to apply is quickly approaching – August 3, 2022.

(Feel free to reach out to me with any questions as well – it just so happens that I administer the HR side of Law Enforcement and Forest Protection at our agency, but don’t let that stop you!)

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Little Bits of Summer

A little post.

A little plant.

A little summer

Little joys that, taken together, amount to so much more. 

Appreciate all the little in the world. 

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Itty Bitty Blooms

These little flowers were trailing out of a potted geranium that my Mom planted this year, and together they create happy duet of color, form, and prettiness. Despite the skewed perspective of these close-up shots, they are actually quite small in size, making up for it by number and sprawl. 

The whimsy of a container planting is found in its demand to be seen at close-range. It beckons the viewer closer, as if it were going to share some delicious secret. 

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The Meditation Pusher

When Chris visited last week, I showed him how to do some ocean breathing, and rather than listening and paying attention, he chose to take a video of me mid-breath. Where once I would have minded, I chose instead to laugh it off, as my repeated encouragement for him to try daily meditation has thus far been left with less than a shrug. Andy mentioned that meditation is a personal thing, and it’s true that what works for one person may not work for another. And when you have a mind as distracted, unfocused, and racing as most of us do these days, well, no form of meditation may work, especially when the practitioner wants instant change and immediate gratification. My experience with meditation is that the biggest key to successfully implementing it as a part of your life is to be consistent, be organized, and be absolutely dedicated to it, even if you don’t notice a change right away. Not everyone can do that, and I’m not an expert on how to reach people. 

To his credit, after a lengthy night swim and some quiet talk, he gave it a shot for a few minutes, and he said it seemed to work better than previous attempts because he was already in a calm space. Here’s hoping he can work it into his daily life, as the ones who seem to likely benefit the most from meditation often find it hardest to do. That’s a tricky conundrum comprising a difficult life. 

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Cooled by Calamansi

The recipe for this alcohol-free Calamansi Cooler may be found here – and feel free to vary and veer off in your direction, either by adding some alcohol or softening the tartness of the citrus with some fancy simple syrup. It’s summer, and the living should be easy. 

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