Some people find comfort and solace in long drives with which to clear their heads and hearts, ...
Latest blog posts
Driving Away the Hurt
01 Aug, 2026
Dear Dad – It’s been three years since you departed this earth, and while I still think ...
A Semi-Solid Gold Summer Playlist
31 Jul, 2026
With June and July fading from the rear-view mirror, August and September are all we have left ...
Death Cab for Cutie has inadvertently insisted on inserting its music into our Solid Gold Summer – ...
About Alan Ilagan
Alan Bennett Ilagan is a blogger who resides in upstate New York. A graduate of Brandeis University, Ilagan has been published in Instinct, xy magazine, Windy City Times, Q Northeast, Metroland, commUNITY, and ‘The Project for a New Mythology.’ He has been profiled in Unzipped, Genre, Diversity Rules! Magazine, and Upstate Magazine. From 2008 to 2012 he served as manager of the Romaine Brooks Gallery at the Pride Center of the Capital Region. He and his husband Andy were married in 2010 and remain happily unburdened by children. His website has been up since 2003, making it one of the longest running personal blogs.

