Dazzler of the Day: Mehdi Hasan

Many journalists have been suffering from trying, and miserably failing, to hold a bunch of GOP candidates to the truth these days. It’s a new skill required now that lying seems to be the Republican way of winning. Unwilling to let anything stand in the way of truth and honest reporting, Mehdi Hasan earns his first Dazzler of the Day crowning for his masterful way of interviewing subjects. Refusing to be snowed or overwhelmed by lies and repetitious idiocy, he adamantly refuses to let anyone go without an answer to his reasonable and fair questions. Witness the recent interview he did with the awful Vivek Ramaswamy, the joke of an heir to Trump’s nonsensical political career, and marvel at his interviewing skills in the face of slick but obviously false statements. Check out ‘The Mehdi Hasan Show’ on Sunday nights at 8 PM. 

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Getting Reacquainted with Corey

Meet Corey. That’s the nickname I’ve given to this late-blooming Coreopsis, a plant I completely forgot about  (again) until I saw this cheery bloom hovering near the pink hibiscus by the pool. It could have, and perhaps should have, been a bit more floriferous, but in my forgetful neglect of the past season, I didn’t amend the soil or fertilize or help it along in any way. Still, it bloomed for me, and I’m grateful for the little bit of beauty coming so late in the proverbial summer day. 

I’d like to believe that some plants bloom simply for the sake of blooming – to add something pretty and beautiful to this world – and that it’s not just about setting seed and ensuring survival. It’s probably just wishful and fanciful thinking on my part, and I’m sure the form and color and perfume of every flower serves some purpose – I still choose to believe that beauty may be its own purpose. 

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Dazzler of the Day: Diana Ross

She just sang Happy Birthday to Beyoncé at one of the Renaissance Tour stops, which felt somewhat like the anointing of the next queen-in-waiting for the throne of pop culture Queen Bee – a title which Diana Ross has arguably held in her long and storied career. Impossible to encapsulate in a single post, Ms. Ross easily adds Dazzler of the Day to her many titles and accomplishments. Her influence reigns in all the various configurations and career trajectories of singer-actor-producer-writer-multi-hyphenates, and she paved the way for entities such as Whitney Houston, Madonna, Janet Jackson and of course Beyoncé. Michael Jackson himself publicly admired and credited Ross with inspiring him from a young age, so her aspirational career appealed to more than female entertainers. Today, she is still touring, still performing, and still shining as one of the most enduring and beloved stars this world has ever been fortunate to have in its ranks. 

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A Mystery by Tom Ford

We are approaching the holiday season, and though that may feel a long way off, it’s really not, and I don’t want anyone to get caught in shipping delays or backed up orders, so here’s an early promising idea that comes courtesy of my favorite fragrance supplier, Tom Ford. This is ‘Myrrhe Mystere’, the latest Private Blend release, billed as “a provocative, vibrational expression of the mystical resin – a richly luminous aura.” What the fuck ever – I’m highly skeptical that anything approaching myrrh is involved in this, but fragrance is more about the idea and essence than authenticity. Reviews so far have been kind, likening it to ‘Ébène Fumé’, which I absolutely love (it has supplanted ‘Santal Blush’ as my holiday fragrance). If this comes anywhere close to that, it may be the fall fragrance that leads into holiday season, and I might have to simply order it myself sooner rather than later. I’ll give it a spin the next time I’m in Boston.

The listed notes are sandalwood, myrrh essence and ultra-vanille accord – while those in the know/nose have proclaimed it to be a dreamy bit of amber. If there’s a scrap of ‘Amber Absolute’ in the mix I’m definitely in. A major drawback is the outrageous price point for this one, which is better left unsaid and unprinted lest anyone think I’ve gone completely around the bend. When I do a sample test, its going to have to last the whole day long, and project to kingdom come to make it worth such exorbitance. We shall see.

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Dazzler of the Day: Jim Verraros

He was part of that magical first season of ‘American Idol’, where every contestant was memorable in their own right, each perfectly capable of being the main character in the story. Jim Verraros won the hearts of the world when he competed and viewers got to know his adorable parents, and since then he’s crafted a solid life for himself, one that has included music and film roles along the way. He is returning to the musical scene with new work this month – the eagerly-anticipated new single ‘Take My Bow’ is out September 15, 2023 and he earns this Dazzler of the Day for doing it with the style, panache and talent that earned him a place on the ‘Idol’ platform.

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Exhaustion and Matcha

It’s been almost a month since Andy and I had our first bout of COVID, and we still have coughs and regular stretches of sheer exhaustion. If I so much as sit down briefly in our comfy green chair, and allow my head to go to the side, I will promptly fall asleep in a matter of minutes. I don’t dare to lie down on a bed unless I want to throw away the next ten hours. It has slowed everything down, but the start of this September is so hot and humid, it feels right to slow down. 

The mornings have so far remained momentarily cool, allowing for a cup of matcha to jumpstart the day, and stave off immediate exhaustion when at the office. I haven’t had matcha since early spring, when this sort of heat and humidity was a welcome dream. Time changes everything. 

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Zac Efron Gratuitously Shirtless

It’s been way more than a hot minute since Zac Efron graced the pages of this blog, so let’s rectify that with a few shots of him cavorting waterside with his brother Dylan. (Shall we name Dylan a Dazzler of the Day soon or what?) For more naked and nude Zac Efron shots, check out the links in this previous blog post

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Purple Tuesday

A minor re-blooming at the tail end of the season is always a welcome sight, particularly when one manages to capture it in the almost-golden hour. Sunlight slanting through the petals of a clematis bloom illuminates things differently depending on which side it’s on. When viewed head-on, with the sunlight falling directly on it, the petals feel warmer, the veining richer; when viewed from behind, the blue of the sky as its backdrop, it feels decidedly cooler, and more crisp. 

The shift from summer to fall, in spite of all atmospheric evidence to the contrary, has begun. One wouldn’t know it from the 90-degree days that are in full-effect, but it’s happening. These last few summer days will find me hiding from the sun and heat; I wrote this summer off a while ago. I will try to embrace them, and inhabit them as they come. I will try to be present, to experience what remains of this season and not wish or rush it away. I will also eagerly anticipate the fall, and even the winter; it is time for the gardens to go to sleep for another year. 

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A Super Blue Moon Recap

Normally one to shy away from the full moon for fear of lunacy and other mishaps that too often coincide with its appearance, I felt drawn to the Super Blue Moon that visited on August 30, and managed to capture a coupe of photos before it hid behind a bank of clouds. Maybe the trick to dealing with the madness of a full moon is to embrace it – to stand outside beneath its glory and appreciate its beauty rather than hiding away from its power and might. Perhaps there is a way to harness its energy and not fear its pull. 

On that night, I kept checking on its progress until I found it peeping around the infuriating cloud cover. It was enough – and beneath its blue glow I felt a peace I hadn’t felt in a long while. A moon’s kiss is a magical gift. On with the weekly recap back on earth… 

Summer still burned, even if my mood didn’t quite match its smolder.

There was fog, and perhaps a phantom pheasant.

A possible explanation to the fury and the madness.

A cheeky full-moon post that somehow revealed more than my bare ass.

Nuance is all but lost in today’s world

August departing.

September arriving.

Ferny freshness.

Down with the dumpster fire that is Twitter, err, X.

Climbing and vining before the season is done.

Dazzlers of the Day included Trevor Wayne, Donna Murphy, Nick VannelloSam Heughan and Graham McTavish.

 

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Climbing & Vining

Behold the sunny blooms of the Black-eyed Susan vine – Thunbergia alata. This specimen was grown from seed, and has just started coming into its own after battling it out in a shared large pot with some nasturtiums and hyacinth bean vines. The latter two have started their season-ending decline, and the Thunbergia has come into its own to take center stage at the 11th hour of summer. Better late than never, and this show is especially appreciated when almost everything else in the garden has ceased showing off. 

The cheery blooms have certainly taken their time to appear – only a scant few sporadic blossoms have appeared throughout the summer – not enough to make much of an impression, but there are buds on the way, and more blooms appearing every day. It’s a lovely way to send off the season, and I will probably try these again next year. 

This is the first time I’ve thought about next year like that. It is thrilling and comforting at once. It’s also far in the distance. We have a long fall and winter slumber in which to rest and recuperate first. 

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Twittering… Err, X-ing

Does anybody bother with Twitter, I mean X, anymore? 

It’s just a dumpster fire now

This is what I got when I tried to post a link to this fabulous blog there the other day:

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Dazzler of the Day: Graham McTavish

It wouldn’t be right to name Sam Heughan as Dazzler of the Day without bestowing equal glory upon his ‘Outlander’ and ‘Men in Kilts’ co-star and pal Graham McTavish, and so it is that McTavish gets his official crowning as Dazzler today. In addition to his renowned work on ‘Outlander’, McTavish is perhaps best recognized for his work on ‘The Hobbit’ trilogy, where his unmistakable voice cut through all the make-up and fantasy footage. For me, it’s the very real, and often hilarious, friendship depicted in ‘Men in Kilts’ that makes him such a fascinating study. 

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Ferning

While much of the garden has gone to seed and slumber, drying out and dying back for the season, most of the ferns are still as fresh and verdant as when they first unfurled their fronds at the start of spring. It’s one of the main draws of the fern family – their beauty is almost everlasting. 

It’s an under-appreciated benefit to have such a scene of freshness in the garden this late in the game. There are sunny and warm days yet to come – and even after this Labor Day weekend summer will still technically linger until nearer the end of September. Let’s not hurry it away, even if it has been especially hurtful. 

To make the show last even longer, many ferns can be flattened and dried – they do exceptionally well as pressed specimens, making for framed beauty to see us through the winter. 

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Dazzler of the Day: Sam Heughan

Known perhaps best for his work on ‘Outlander’, Sam Heughan came into my life thanks to his real-life travel series ‘Men In Kilts: A Road Trip with Sam and Graham’ which features him and his co-star and friend Graham McTavish. The genuine friendship and camaraderie between them, and the palpable chemistry and bonhomie makes for constantly entertaining moments, even when they’re just driving along in their van. They wrote a best-selling book together as well, entitled ‘Clanlands: Whisky, Warfare, and a Scottish Adventure Like No Other.’ For those reasons, Heughan is crowned as Dazzler of the Day. Check out this season of ‘Men In Kilts’ as they explore New Zealand. 

{On a completely unrelated note, I’m wearing a kilt for all my holiday dinners this year.}

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September Arriving

A song for the first day of September, entitled almost entirely too basically as ‘September Song’, and written and performed by the great Agnes Obel, this will mark our entrance to the month in which we transition from summer to fall. A sigh of sadness would usually accompany such a statement, but this year is different for me. This year, fall feels welcome, and the slumber of winter feels like it may function as an old friend. More than anything, I want things to slow down, and I want to feel the days as they arrive, not rush through them in order to get to the next thing. 

The next thing is not always lovely. 

The next thing lurks like a monster from childhood. 

Whether or not it’s only in your mind, the next thing is awful in how awful it can be imagined. 

So let us have this September Song, and let it be a balm on all our worry and wonder. 

Let it welcome us into a new month, and a new season, while embracing the last days of summer, celebrating and honoring everything that has happened beneath the sun and the rain. 

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