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Latest blog posts

The past few weeks I haven’t been sleeping well.  It’s mostly my fault, turning to the phone when ...

My husband, retired police officer and former upholder of rule and law, seems to have had a ...

I feel accused. I feel attacked. I feel seen. Mindfulness and meditation amid all the mayhem. Try it. You’ll like it.  ...

Even though I’m almost 50 years old (it’s coming in August, people, start saving) the older I ...

About Alan Ilagan

Alan Bennett Ilagan is a blogger who resides in upstate New York. A graduate of Brandeis University, Ilagan has been published in Instinct, xy magazine, Windy City Times, Q Northeast, Metroland, commUNITY, and ‘The Project for a New Mythology.’ He has been profiled in Unzipped, Genre, Diversity Rules! Magazine, and Upstate Magazine. From 2008 to 2012 he served as manager of the Romaine Brooks Gallery at the Pride Center of the Capital Region. He and his husband Andy were married in 2010 and remain happily unburdened by children. His website has been up since 2003, making it one of the longest running personal blogs.