Summer Thyme

Playing on the song of this summer, it always feels like there is one endless supply of summer time, or in this case summer thyme. It sprawls out ahead of us, with no end in sight, unfurling in bloom and herbal freshness. 

A carpet of thyme, especially in bloom, is a charm that may be found at the edge of a meadow, or the neglected patch of a parking lot divider. Brushing through its mat of pungent leaves, I sense the memory of a spice cupboard surfacing, bringing back fall and winter at a most inopportune moment. This is summer – and it’s only just begun. 

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This Lavender Daisy

A recent dinner with Suzie at Athos provided the opportunity to try this mocktail twist on their ‘Lavender Daisy’ drink – hats off to a restaurant that offers every single one of its cocktails in mocktail form. The presentation is coquettish, and I would love for violets to play a part in all my drinks from this point forward. That’s the sort of magic one can wish for in a coquette summer. Let’s also have a song – one for the moon…

Days seem sometimes as if they’ll never endSun digs its heels to taunt youBut after sunlit days, one thing stays the sameRises the moon

Days fade into a watercolour blurMemories swim and haunt youBut look into the lake, shimmering like smokeRises the moon
Oh-oh, close your weary eyesI promise you that soon the autumn comesTo darken fading summer skiesBreathe, breathe, breathe
Our coquette summer continues – and coquette can be cloudy and rainy, especially if the clouds are pink and the raindrops are violets. Sadness and melancholy disguised in Chantilly lace and whipped cream. Sweetness would be simple solace, and I’m not sure that’s attainable. Solace…  I’ve used that word before in these posts, and I’m afraid I may have been mistaken. It might be that I wanted it so badly to be true that I put it up here, in post after post, hoping it would one day prove true. One can indeed will things into being, where once they simply didn’t exist. 
Days pull you down just like a sinking shipFloating is getting harderBut tread the water, child, and know that meanwhileRises the moon

And so I swim, in the pool that once brought us such joy, attempting to set the trappings of happiness in physical form, rekindling the precise atmosphere and setting where happiness once resided, leading with action in the motion, the way some say to smile when you want to feel better, tricking the body into thinking it’s in a space and place of happiness. And then I remember – a coquette summer isn’t necessarily meant to be one of happiness, and maybe this summer isn’t meant to have much of solace in it anyway. We shall dream in the day and swim in the night, drink in the stars and sip on the moon, and our coquette summer will be rounded in a sleep…

Days pull you up just like a daffodilUprooted from its gardenThey’ll tell you what you owe, but know even soRises the moon
You’ll be visited by sleepI promise you that soon the autumn comesTo steal away each dream you keepBreathe, breathe, breathe
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Dazzler of the Day: Frederick Richard

Clinching the number one position on the men’s gymnastics Olympic team representing the USA, Frederick Richard is crowned as Dazzler of the Day in glorious anticipation of this summer’s Olympic Games in Paris, France. Helming our Olympic gymnastics team, Richard has vowed to bring home some medals, even if he’s already proven himself in the past year of competition. 

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A Coquette July Begins with a Recap

When your therapist lays out how all the conditions of the past few months have set you up perfectly for a mid-life crisis, it gives one pause, especially as it’s been a challenge simply getting out of bed in recent days, coupled with self-induced difficulty in getting to sleep at night. And so, we pause, as July dawns and this recap goes through the past week, as our weekly recap does. Perhaps the way out is focusing on our coquette theme, and losing oneself in the pink, ribbon-laced aesthetic, especially when the rest of the world has gone so atrociously dark. My niece Emi played a large part in conjuring the coquette theme, and so she appears here lending some support to her favorite doting Uncle. On with the recap…

Summer sunsetz and summer skize.

A blue not found in any flag.

Still largely unaffected by FOMO. (I have HTMO – Happy To Miss Out.)

A mass of neuroses.

A strawberry moon amid stormy fits and rainy starts at the beginning of a Boston summer.

Even in the rain, Boston shines when it’s summer.

Swedish candy craze.

Pride Month comes to a close.

Under a wizard’s delicious spell.

The Virgo of August differs from the Virgo of September.

We don’t have to take our clothes off.

“Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”

A coquettish mix – the second playlist of our coquette summer.

Dazzlers of the Day included Michael Phelps, Louisa Jacobson, John Duff, and Ryan Murphy.

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Coquette Summer: Playlist the 2nd

Our second playlist for this coquette summer is at hand for the moments before we turn the page to July. When summer turns to high, all feels endlessly glorious with the world, like summer could last forever. Every year it feels like that, every year it feels endless – or maybe that’s just hope. No matter how much we know it will end, we hope

This is the second Coquette Summer playlist – entitled simply ‘coquettish’. Beneath the spell of summer, this music percolates like an old-school coffee-maker, sputtering auditory stimulation and sweetness to mask the murder of democracy for which this country seems headed. Enjoy what is possibly our last summer of freedom, bury your head in the sand and songs, and coquette away your trifling worries. 

This is the soundtrack to the world getting fucked, and no one paying any attention to it. 

Opus 17 – Dustin O’Halloran

The Forbidden Fruits of Eden – AURORA

Petite Fleur – The Hot Sardines

From the Start – Laufey

Love Is – Ingrid Michaelson and Jason Mraz

I Guess I Was Daydreaming – Cake on Cake

Heavenly – Cigarettes After Sex

Opus 23- Dustin O’Halloran

Material Girl – Kris Bowers

What Love Will Do To You – Laufey

Zou Bisou Bisou – Gillian Hills

Kinda Hate U, Kinda Love U – Alex Sloane 

Smaller Than This – Sarah Kays

The Conflict of the Mind – AURORA

Opus 36- Dustin O’Halloran

Diamond – Hanna V and Joe Rodwell

Blank Space – Vitamin String Quartet 

Home for the Summer – Sarah Kays

Come on Rainbow – Cake on Cake

Dear Diary – Alex Sloane

Petite Fleur – Chris Barber’s Jaxx Band

La Madrague – Brigitte Bardot 

Beautiful Stranger – Laufey

Sunsetz – Cigarettes After Sex

Pink In the Night – Mitski

A Night to Remember – Laufey and beabadoobee

Rises the Moon – Liana Flores

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#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series

“Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”

Words can lead to joy if you let them. 

#TinyThreads

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We Don’t Have to Take Our Clothes Off

Sometimes – most times in fact – it’s sexier leaving something on, and leaving a little, or a lot, to the imagination. The gentleman in this post (starting with featured swimsuit beach model Shawn Mendes) are testament to that, as they give off their own impressive heat without baring it all. We have never done full-frontal male nudity here (or full-frontal female nudity either for that matter) but we like to come close. {Do a quick “Alan + Ilagan + full + frontal + nudity” Google search and stand back Buenos Aires… we’ll wait.} With that salacious digression out of the way and into your search history, here are a few folks who didn’t have to take their clothes off to inspire a good time, and a song that you will hate me for putting in your ear. Grab some cherry wine and go!

Jim Verraros has mastered the art of the scintillating tease, his seductive promos for latest singles ‘Take My Bow‘ and ‘Pyramid‘ have been nothing short of scorching. 

While he may be more accustomed to being on the other side of the lens, photographer Leo Holden of Snooty Fox Images makes just as fine a model as any he has focused his camera’s gaze upon. 

Our most recent Dazzler of the Day Ryan Murphy prefers the longer Speedo seen here for his Olympic attire, and it seems to be working for him. 

Luke Evans loves a wet tease, as he has proven in his own Speedo pics through the years, and we are happily powerless to make an argument against it.

 

Finally, Orville Peck got a lot more naked in this post, but the tantalizing arm-pit reveal for those who revel in such things should make plenty people sit up and take notice. And here’s that ear-worm for those still seeking out worms and trouser-snakes… 

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Dazzler of the Day: Ryan Murphy

Earning a second trip to the summer Olympics, Ryan Murphy also earns this Dazzler of the Day crowning. Following up on previous golden glory, Murphy is now a veteran, and maybe that means he has a little more to prove. Summer is made for swimming, and Murphy was made for speed – watch both collide in Paris next month.

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#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series

This may be more true than I care to acknowledge. 

Virgos… we are the worst astrological sign.

#TinyThreads

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Under a Wizard’s Delicious Spell

Appearing almost magically across the street from downtown Albany’s oldest store, Wizard Burger has been around for a couple of years, but I never took the opportunity to try it out until last week – and it was a happy and fortuitous revelation, as the pickings for lunch during the week in downtown are scant to say the least. Part of my reluctance is that I’m generally a meat-loving guy, so if I’m going to have a burger, I always thought I wanted it to be a meat burger. I was wrong. All of the selections at Wizard burger are vegan, but unless someone told you that you might not necessarily notice or believe it. The flavors and combos are that surprisingly satisfying .

Asking which burger on the menu was a good beginner’s choice, I took the advice of the person behind the counter and ordered their Big Kahuna (which seemed like a bold suggestion, given the pineapple and pickled jalapeño combo), as well as an order of their Buffalo-style fries (also vegan, despite their spicy taste and breaded-chicken-like appearance). Both were insanely good – the burger also had a soy glaze and some house mayo, all of which made for a sweet and savory and spicy combination that packed more flavor and punch than any burger I’ve had in the past year. The fries were no joke either, and while the creamy sauce accompanying them bore no similarity to the potent blue cheese that one may be accustomed to, it was no less delicious for the difference. All in all, it was a crazy satisfying meal, and I’ll be back again to fall under a different spell (the Wiz Mac sounds like a magnificently magical variation on the Big Mac, while the Magicano is their jackfruit-based take on pulled pork). And I haven’t even gotten started on the other fries and burritos…

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Dazzler of the Day: John Duff

If anyone is still looking for a Pride anthem at this late date, check out ‘Be Your Girl’ by John Duff, which takes us back to the gloriously melodic whirling days of carefree disco and delicious pop hookery. Duff has made a few of these bops, and several eye-popping videos to go along with them, easily earning this Dazzler of the Day crowning just in time to end Pride Month on a high note.

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The Swedish Candy Craze

While I crave a daily sweet treat, that craving rarely comes in the desire for candy. That recently changed when the Swedish candy craze that’s been taking social media by storm deposited clips of colorful bunches of chewy, gummy deliciousness on my feed, dangling those delectable bites of sweet and tart along with their supplier links right at my double-click-to-pay fingertips. It was all too tempting to pass by, and so I ordered my first batch of sour candy mix from Bon Bon, a purveyor of Swedish candy based in New York City. Today they arrived, and they are just as enjoyable as they appear – a rarity when so much online food looks amazing until you get it into your mouth. 

This collection offers lemon, watermelon, cola, peach, and all sorts of combinations that straddle the mouthwatering line between sweet and sour, resulting in a gloriously-tart experience that explodes in the mouth like oh so many other sweetly scandalous things. 

Next up on my wish list is a sampling of their Summer mix, as well as their Jelly’Marshmallow mix. They will make for the ideal coquette sweet treat in this coquette summer. 

Life is too short not to taste the candy.

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A Strawberry Moon & Rainy Boston Beginning – Part 2

Summer is wily in its ways, and though the next day dawned in overcast fashion, the sky was light, with no rain forecast until later that afternoon. Acting strangely against knowing better, we headed out into the day without umbrellas, making vague promises and plans to be back for our afternoon siesta well before the rain returned. Famous last words…

The goal of our excursion was to find a ‘festive’ outfit for an upcoming graduation brunch for Suzie’s daughter Oona – when pressed for a more specific dress code, Suzie enlisted the help of her son Milo, who described it as “festive business casual summer night dress code”. In other words, I will wear whatever the fuck I want and everyone is going to like it. Still, it’s nice to have a little goal, especially in the summer, and it gave us purpose as we traipsed through our usual Downtown Crossing clothing haunts.

In truth, any loosely-assembled reason would have worked – the real goal has never been an outfit or an accessory, only a desire to spend time with a friend. We moved through Faneuil Hall then crossed into the North End for an Italian lunch as the clouds rolled in. Many a fun meal has been had in the North End, and I remembered dinners with Mom, Chris, Suzie, Kira, and the twins. Summer leans into nostalgia, even if it’s not my usual province. 

We finished lunch and managed to make it all the way back to Arlington, where we pushed our luck and browsed along Newbury Street as the clouds darkened. As we reached Mass Ave to turn around, the rain had arrived. We went store by store, starting with Muji, pausing at Uniqlo, and taking our make-do siesta at the Mandarin Oriental lobby. We wound our way through the Prudential Center and took one final break at a coffeehouse near the condo, before making a run for dryness and warmth. 

Kira promptly took a nap when we got back, and I did my daily meditation. Soon it was time for a later dinner, and we headed out into a calmer night. A lighter dinner of small plates from SRV right round the corner proved the perfect culinary ending to our weekend. On our way home, this rabbit posed for a picture

It had been a largely rainy weekend, and there was something healing in that. Without a bombastic and sunny reason to be out on an endless city stroll, we leaned into stillness and silence. It was enough just to be beside a friend who has also experienced loss, to sit together and breathe together and simply be together. 

There is beauty in the rain that only summer can elicit, and if this is how summer begins in Boston, it’s going to be all right. 

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A Strawberry Moon & Rainy Boston Beginning – Part 1

Beneath the full Strawberry Moon, a recent entry into Boston was a wild ride thanks to the lunar madness at hand, but Kira and I needed to kick off summer in whatever fashion possible. That meant dealing with a rollercoaster of weather – from the very finest sunny day that greeted my arrival, to several torrential downpours that did their best to fuck shit up, but summer is happening no matter what form it takes, and we were there to celebrate our friendship and find a bit of solace now since we both lost our fathers in the past year. It’s a different kind of club to which we now belong, and it shades summer differently because that sort of loss, once it begins, doesn’t really end.

Boston laid out its full-moon zaniness with a big-ass Celtics celebratory parade, which apparently was ending just as I was trying to find parking. A sea of people waiting to get onto the Orange Line spilled out onto Dartmouth Street, almost blocking traffic. Luckily there were visitor spots near enough to the condo, as the mass exodus of basketball fans were making their way back to where they began.

Opening the windows in the front of the condo, I let the stuffiness that had accumulated over a few days of 90 degree weather dissipate, then started the window air conditioner and set up a fan to cool things down in the bedroom. These were happy summer practices, and brought back memories of a heatwave during one my first summers living in Boston, as well as the installation of our current AC unit courtesy of Skip during an early BroSox Adventure. Summer memories are often the best memories.

When Kira texted that she was arriving at Back Bay Station, I rushed out to meet her halfway along the Southwest Corridor Park. It was resplendent in full, gorgeous bloom, and as I was bending down to take a few of these photos, Kira arrived and we picked up where we last left off, with perhaps a little more world-weariness to our steps. Kira’s had more than her share of loss over the past few years, and where I would have once filled the silence with my typical silliness and nonsense, this visit I let the quiet simply exist between us. True friendship has always proven itself in the comfort one can experience without filling the silence with words or distractions. We let the flowers speak for us, and they whispered secrets of beauty as a balm and calming background as we returned to the condo and settled in for some mocktail magnificence.

Our dinner plans were a loose hodge-podge of ideas – we started filling up with some cheese and crackers, and I brought the ingredients for a Mexican salad – but we needed a few more items, so we set out on a walk deeper into the South End to find the Whole Foods Market. As we neared it, the sky opened up and a torrential downpour quickly whipped itself into a frenzy of wind and water. The full Strawberry moon was in effect, and we were suddenly trapped as the heavy rain showed no sign of letting up, and we showed no sign of preparation being completely caught without our umbrellas. Consulting the weather report on our phones, it looked like the storms would continue until 8:30, which was much too long to wait it out at a Whole Foods, I donít care if they do have hot and fried food available for purchase. We did have some French fries to wait it out a bit, but when the rain refused to subside, I found a decent deal on an Uber and took it home. Even with that luxury, we were quite wet by the time we got back, and the summer day that had greeted our arrival had turned into a stormy evening. It felt fitting, and sleep is always more sound when rainfall is mumbling somewhere in the background…

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