Category Archives: General

Boston Afternoon Vista

Whether I’m lucky enough to be lounging in the bedroom as the sun goes down, or caught in the wave of commuters rushing home, late afternoon in Boston is one of my favorite times of the day. I’m not sure why – early mornings carry their quiet charm, and midnight walks hold their own enchantment, but something about the pause in the day, the light of the almost-golden hour, and the illuminated buildings make it one of the more magical moments in a twenty-four hour trajectory.

Here, Trinity Church is lit up in all its amber-glowing splendor, backed by the building formerly known as the John Hancock Tower. (It’s called 200 Clarendon, now, I believe – which is neither better nor worse.) The juxtaposition of old and new is a telling mirror of Boston itself, and one of the reasons I love the city so much is this thrilling mash-up found around every corner.

If you examine the top left of the photos, you’ll also see the moon and an airplane cutting through the sky – another incongruous pairing, this time of timeless nature and modern-day technology, spinning around one another in dizzying contrast. That’s not just Boston – that’s the world. And that may be more food for thought than anyone can chew on an early morning like this.

Continue reading ...

Post NYC Recap

The staggered posting format of this blog means that a proper recap of this recent weekend in New York will have to wait, as will other things. For now, a look back at what went on website-wise, not in real life. I prefer the latter to the former, so do the math as to my satisfaction level as I hurriedly write this.

A hot ginger led the Hunk of the Day charge. This is Steven Di Costa in his fiery debut.

Followed hot-on-his-heels by a midnight charged post of Sergey Lazarev.

Are you hungry? Try this uni and lobster in Cambridge.

In search of more heat? Here’s Eyal Berkover.

My favorite part of a party. Well, almost.

Rays of white.

How to smell like a daisy.

Daisy party garb.

A daisy birthday.

A somewhat-semi-annual Broadway excursion in effect again.

My sheer brief underwear.

A blood-sucking Hunk of the Day: Alexander Skarsgård.

The glamour! The fashion! The cologne!

And again!

The rarity of a two-time Hunk of the Day.

A beautiful bouquet is worth more than the sum of its parts.

One of my favorite Hunks of the Day in recent memory: Jacob Tomsky.

A most-fitting, and surprisingly-touching tribute from a Queen to a Prince.

Continue reading ...

The Beautiful Balm of a Bouquet

When I was in grade school, our general music classes took place in the basement/bomb shelter of the building. As a kid, its mustiness and fluorescent interior did not bother me in the least, nor did its painted cinder-block walls and dank corners. If anything, it was an escape, not solely for the topic at hand, but for the excursion into the recesses of a building we mostly knew from above.

Our music teacher, a blonde woman whose hair changed styles from year to year (there was an especially-iffy perm circa 1986 that I remember to this day) was a piano-playing soprano who endeared herself to me with her annual presentation of ‘Peter and the Wolf’ – still a remarkable introduction for kids to the world of classical music. She doted on me in return – my boyhood voice was pretty soprano as well. I sat in the front row with a few girl friends and she would sometimes use us as an example of how to sing something in tune or in rhythm. (Yeah, I was that kid – and loved it.)

Somewhere during our seven years together at McNulty school, she started to receive bouquets of roses – once every week or so. She’d place them on the corner of her desk, and on those days her step had a brighter bounce to it, her countenance a cheerier aspect. Even her sometimes-questionable hair looked better when that bouquet stood at happy sentinel by her side. When she sang on those days, her voice soared, as if trying to match the heights of beauty that those flowers exemplified. As much as I was struck by their beauty, I was equally enthralled with the effect they had.

A bouquet of flowers changes the atmosphere.

It shifts the balance of a room.

In the case of a dark, fetid basement, it brought in an airiness that was just as good as opening a window.

In the case of a party, it is the mark of a friend.

Always, it is a work of art.

A bouquet of flowers can be as simple or as elaborate as one wishes, limited only by the imagination of the arranger. In the stunning case presented here, a rich landscape of flowers and foliage results in a fresh and vibrant pocket of paradise, a portable glimpse into a miniature world of beauty.

Comprised of a magnificent array of orchids and exquisitely-ruffled tulips that could pass as fancy roses, it is backed by feathery greens, and thrillingly accented by a pair of poppy seed pods that lend it an exotic and other-worldly splendor.

Our friend Courtney made this extraordinary bouquet, as a gracious gift of thanks for hosting JoAnn’s birthday party. I have to confess, I’ve secretly been longing for a Courtney bouquet since I sat at a table that held one of her creations a few years ago. It had sprays of mimosa in it and entranced me with its perfume and delicately designed beauty. When I saw this one, it felt like a dream come true.

Continue reading ...

Simple Daisy Party Garb

Some parties are smaller affairs, designed for the enjoyment and interaction of guests. Less attention is paid to details like wardrobe and decorations, less emphasis is placed on surroundings, and the simple gathering of good friends is more than ample entertainment. Far from the sprawling excess and outrageous ensembles of holiday and summer parties, these little get-togethers call for something quieter, where the only thing that raises its voice – and then only slightly – is the color of the pants and maybe a matching choker. And when you find the latter for $5 at an H&M bargain bin, you know you’re golden.

Continue reading ...

Daisy, Daisy

“Behold
the azure sea in front of you,
the turquoise sky above you,
the amber mountain beneath your feet,
and the golden daisy in your hands.
How are you not the richest person on earth?”
― Khang Kijarro Nguyen

Continue reading ...

The Night Before A Party

Confession: I usually enjoy the night before a party better than the night of a party. It’s not something that has been particularly helpful for living in the moment, and my main goal in life has become having fun at the event rather than during the preparation, but there are far worse afflictions to have. There’s also something to be said about being able to enjoy the days of anticipation instead of the mere fleeting hours of a party, so I guess collectively I’m probably having a lot more fun than most people.

Usually the reason for such a skewed view is the fact that for most parties a guest or two will arrive the night before – either because they’re traveling or just want to extend their stay or are being gracious and good enough to help out in preparation. These friends are the close ones who form my inner circle, and sharing a pre-party dinner or sleep-over with them restores my heart.

On a recent weekend in Boston, my friend Kira arrived on Friday night to help set up for a gathering on Saturday. We went out to dinner then picked up the daisies you see here. A midnight flower-arranging session was exactly what I needed to kick off spring in fine fashion, and in the amber glow of the condo all was warm and well with the world.

Continue reading ...

Paramount is Paradise

A cocktail to the first person who gets the obscure musical reference.

My mind works in lyrical snippets, and it’s rarely a good thing.

Continue reading ...

In Spite of the Cold, A May Recap

It feels like anything but May – March or November or even January of this past season – but such is the price of our non-winter. Had I known it would be like this now, I’d have taken the bitterness then. We don’t have such choices. And now we recap, no matter what.

The mighty have fallen, as they always do, every year.

Justin Timberlake threw in his fedora for the Song of the Summer.

No one can say his name, but Dimitrije Sreckovic made a smashing Hunk of the Day.

The enchanting tea route.

Midday macaron madness.

My brother has a website.

The lilacs lost this year.

Washington wisteria.

The Gronk got naked again.

I hope the right dressing gown… well, I hope it does something.

Peeing with Morning Wood.

A true American Beauty.

Let’s start wth the Asarum.

It’s official: I’m an octopus fiend.

Hanging out in my underwear, as one does.

Boston bloomers. Take two.

Smell this. 

Continue reading ...

Morning Wood

It’s happened to the best of us: morning wood. And often at the moment when you most need to pee. Here’s a pictorial tutorial on how best to deal with the penile predicament. (And for the record I’ve only ever attempted two of these. I’m not telling which – but it most definitely wasn’t the blow dryer.)

Continue reading ...

Mother of a May Recap

It was a mother of a week that kicked off with Madonna’s mammary appearance at the Met Gala. As bold and brazen as that was, it was nothing compared to the beauty that was Alex Libby, Alvaro Francisco, Sean O’Pry and these bodacious Broadway boys.

Washington was alive in shades of pink, yellow and green – and everything in-between.

Do the Jockstrap Hump.

A missing jewel.

Our sixth wedding anniversary.

Happy World Naked Gardening Day!

Signs, signs, everywhere signs.

A turning point in the Tour Book.

My favorite Mom.

An invitation… for today… and forever.

Last but not least, taking his bow as Hunk of the Day was Zayn Malik.

Continue reading ...

Come, Sit By Me

Our usual Monday recap will be up later today, but before we get back into it, I’d like to offer you a seat. If you’re here on a Monday morning, chances are you’ve been here before. Allow me to welcome you back. Let’s settle in for a little chat – one-sided as per usual, but I’m not big on blog comments so this will have to do.

I just want to thank you for visiting. Not one for visitors in real life, I appreciate the virtual ones much more, and as such want to make this an enjoyable and comfortable experience. While I can’t actually offer you much more than words and visages, I’d recommend getting comfortable and turning this into an experience.

Grab a cup of coffee or tea, or maybe later come back with a cocktail. We’ll raise a glass or mug to our health, to our shared moment, to the fact that in some small way we are connected here.

Pull up that fancy chair (courtesy of the Hotel Monaco in Washington, as I don’t live anywhere near as fancy as the environs pictured – because I love a Washington Kimpton.) Inhale the perfume of that majestic lily. Stretch your legs and relax. This is a place of peace. We can be quiet and content here.

Maybe you’d like some music. A delicate French piano piece, perhaps, or maybe some minimalist jazz – slow-going, lazy, mesmerizing and gentle. Pick something soothing, something slightly ambient. We won’t do anything so taxing as singing along, and it should rise only to the level of background noise. Peaceful, fuzzy, tranquilizing white noise that hums unobtrusively like some misty woodland backdrop.

There is beauty to be found among these pages, archived posts that speak of flowers and nature and handsome things that never ask for engagement beyond a glance or a pause. Peruse at your own speed, slowing when you want to rest, advancing when you’d like to move ahead. You design your experience here.

In my virtual living room, I sit beside you, and you are a treasured and welcomed guest. Come, let us take the day together…

Continue reading ...

Eye Popping Amor

There are so many signs in this world that tell us what not to do, where not to go, how not to behave, that anything light-hearted, whimsical and fun is always appreciated in these parts. Here we have some pop art and love, two things of which I just can’t get enough. Go look for serious signs elsewhere; you’ll only find bright colors and affection here. Also, remember: art can be found anywhere. Look and you will find it.

Continue reading ...

Sawdust & Screw

Something is in the works.

Something is always in the works.

Seek. Find. Conjure. Create. Fulfill.

Continue reading ...

Wacky Wednesday: Jockstrap Hump

The Delusional Grandeur Tour got over the hump with its recent spattering of Tour Book entries, chronicling the Warrior Retribution portion of the proceedings. Non-fans of the darker images can relax and rest easy now – from here on out it’s going to be beauty and fashion and flowers and shit – and something a little bit deeper, but that’s for you to discover on your own.

For this Hump Day, here’s a jockstrap shot that never made the final Tour Book, taken as noted from the Warrior section. {You may revisit that lengthy chapter at these links: Part One, Part Two, Part Three, Part Four, Part Five, Part Six, Part Seven, Part Eight.}

And if you like jockstraps, you can visit these posts: Jockstrap One, Jockstrap Two, Jockstrap Three, Jockstrap Four, Jockstrap Five, Jockstrap Six, Jockstrap Seven, Jockstrap Eight. What can I say? We like to get linky here.

Continue reading ...

Bric-à-Brac

This is a clean-up post, wherein a random assortment of photos that didn’t quite find their place in previous posts get dumped so I can clear out some flash drives and you can see some almost-rans. It’s a glimpse behind the curtain, and I have no issue stepping aside for yapping dogs. Originally, I was going to go into their respective backgrounds and offer a background for why they didn’t make the cut, but it’s more fun (and way more easy) to let them speak for themselves. Choose your own adventure.

 

Continue reading ...