Category Archives: Gardening

Roses of Winter and Lent

These beauties showed up at my weekly visit to Faddegon’s, and I was reminded that I need to plant more of them outside. This is the Lenten rose; one of the first bloomers in the perennial border, they also have handsome and stalwart foliage that lasts and maintains its beauty throughout the entire season. In milder winters, some of it remains evergreen. We don’t have many mild winters in these parts, so by spring much of their evergreen tendencies have been worn to tattered and torn bits. I find it better to clip those off entirely so the plant can focus all its energy into new growth. Such is the brutal way of the garden. 

Back when I first planted the lone specimen we have in the backyard, my preferences were for shades of bright pink, speckled or striped petals, and the usual circus-like atmosphere of color and spectacle I favored a couple of decades ago. Now I find myself more drawn to the cream and soft green blooms that the genus offers, and will look to put on in this coming season. I wish I’d gotten to it sooner – they take several years to settle in and bloom, especially if they’re young, or gone through some trauma (such as transplanting tends to inflict). Even in this unsteady world, it feels good to plan for the future, just a bit. 

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Stargazing Toward Summer

Without skipping over spring, that glorious season of renewed hope and rebirth, my heart has lately been pining for summer, so I picked up these Stargazer lilies to fill the living room with the scent of sunny days. They recall our first summer at our home, when I planted a few of these in the backyard, when I was just starting to fill in the space with plants and trees of our own. Back then, much of the yard was overrun with a tangled mass of pachysandra that just have been years in the making. They would take years of unmaking as well, and there are still patches of it that remain uneradicated. I’ve left it alone where nothing else will grow, but they are constantly on notice, encroaching as they do into the more refined and cultivated sections of the yard. Gardening requires such strictness. 

As for the Stargazer lily, they would last a few years, always a few more than expected, and I’d thrill at their buds and sweetly-perfumed flowers when they’d appear mid-summer, but eventually they would peter out, sending up only a stalk or two of foliage as other plants overtook their place. It may be time to put a few more in, and start the cycle of summer surprise again. 

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Beneath the Buddha’s Tree

It is said that the Buddha meditated for 49 days beneath one of these trees, the Ficus benghalensis ‘Audrey’ after which He first attained enlightenment. Native to India, these trees grow to immense sizes in their natural habitat, sending down aerial roots and expanding their canopy into a veritable forest, providing much-needed shade, and apparently a perfect place for the Buddha to dwell and meditate. To this day, temples are built beneath many of these banyan trees – space which is viewed as sacred. I love that idea, and when I saw one of these little plants at the local nursery, I picked it up on a whim to be closer to such enlightenment.

“If you truly loved yourself, you could never hurt another.” ~ The Buddha

Reportedly, this plant is a good alternative to the more finicky Fiddle leaf fig, a plant whose moodiness is too frightening for me to attempt. I don’t have the expanse of bright indirect light and space for the ginormous Fiddle leaf trees, but this tiny little Audrey fig looks manageable. Smaller specimens generally are more amenable to change and adaptation for less than perfect indoor situations. I have a humidifier and some decent enough light by a bay window to at least give this little guy a chance.

He rests on the table beside which I do my daily meditation. Sitting in the lotus position, I can gaze with a soft focus on his handsome leaves, and feel some wondrous connection to nature, to the earth, to the Buddha, and the path on which I find myself makes a little more sense.

I don’t know if the common name (Ficus Audrey) came before or after ‘Little Shop of Horrors’ but I’m taking it as an auspicious sign that it may grow for me. If it ends up eating me alive, well, it was nice knowing you.

“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you.” ~ The Buddha

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Sharing Country Flowers with Mom

When I was just twelve or thirteen years old, I became obsessed with the book ‘Country Flowers’ by Lee Bailey. For a boy at such an age to be consumed by a gardening book is a statement in and of itself, but I didn’t know or care about social constructs at that time, so my love of flowers and gardening and books about such topics was a pure and unmarred source of joy. Luckily for me, that never changed, and though I went through years where I didn’t exactly flaunt or announce how much I loved those things, my love never waned.

At that young age, I was also just learning how to write letters, and on a whim I decided to write Mr. Bailey a letter extending my appreciation for his book and how much it helped me. He was the one who taught me how Digitalis could make for an even more enchanting substitute for the more finicky Delphinium in a garden scheme. He taught me the vast differences in care required by the bearded iris versus the Japanese and Siberian iris. Above all else, he taught me about the grace to be found when one was wholly present in the garden. It was more than practical advice, and I have carried it with me ever since. So as I wrote out my letter by hand, staying within the lined sheet of a standard sheet of school paper, I allowed my feelings to carry forth on my words, unconsciously tying my love of gardening and flowers into a love for writing and correspondence. It all came out, and though I don’t recall exactly what I wrote, I felt confident that sharing it would be some sort of gift for a man who so inspired me.

In those days, circa the mid 1980’s, there was no internet or e-mail or cel phone. I knew he had a summer home in Bridgehampton, as referenced in ‘Country Flowers’ so I dialed up information using our rotary phone on the landline. Back then you could call information and they would give out people’s phone numbers. While on the phone, I asked if the operator could also give me the listed address. Another thing they did back in the day. It was just a street, but I jotted it quickly down on one of my Dad’s medical pads. I would find the zip code and mail it off, praying it found its way into his hands.

It must have done so, for in a few weeks I received a return letter from Mr. Bailey himself, writing how wonderful and rare it was for a boy of my age to already be so entranced by gardening. It was a jolt of inspiration and encouragement, and was probably an integral part of why I have kept gardening and writing close to my heart ever since. It came from a place of purity and shared-passion.  A place of kinship and understanding. A place of love.

And so it is in that spirit that I found a copy of ‘Country Flowers’ and will bestow it upon my Mom for her birthday tomorrow. (It’s just one part of her gift, so there are still surprises intact.) She’s been getting more into gardening over the past year or so, and this book was what would see me through the dark winter nights. I could pore over Bailey’s passages on jonquils alone for hours on end, and the dreamscapes of flowers and fields his words conveyed were as good as forcing a few narcissus bulbs. I’m hoping she finds the same joy and inspiration I found in it as a boy.

“One last thing: like most people, I wish I could more often be the person I sometimes am – and I am most often that person in the garden. So in many ways this book represents the best of me.” ~ Lee Bailey

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Rugged, Relentless Beauty

Rosa rugosa is one hardy garden performer. Any plant that can hold its own against salt spray and the ravages of coastal weather is inherently rugged, but that doesn’t always translate into a garden situation. It also means that if not pruned or properly cared for, it can grow a little rough around the edges. Thankfully, I have one specimen by our poola substitute of solace for not being able to make it to Ogunquit in the past few years – and it has reliably bloomed and produced a healthy fountain of foliage each season. 

This plant has at least four seasons of splendor in it – the first flush of fresh and bright green foliage, the main summer show of pink, sweetly-perfumed rose blooms, the small persimmon-like fruits of late summer, and the spectacular golden fireworks exploding right now. 

That’s a powerhouse performer, and more than makes up for its thornier aspects (it would seem that no other rose has as many barbs on a single stem). I like a plant that’s a little prickly; I can totally relate. 

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Missing the Glory of Morning

Having put the gardens to bed a while ago, and the pool to sleep just a few days ago, a surprise morning glory bloom (before the snowstorm and hard freeze we had) deigned to remind us of the not-so-distant past, yet it already feels so far away. Both Andy and I are entertaining a countdown until spring, and maybe it’s a little soon for that, but time is flying these days, and a chart of weeks for the next four to five months – something to bring us into March – may be the tonic to bring us a happy and surmountable schedule of anticipation. 

In one of the more dreary months of the calendar year, remembering summer mornings filled with these glorious blooms is one lovely way to past a gray day. Spring will come again. And summer will be right behind it. In the meantime, a trove of memories exists, here and in our minds, to bring a little bit of summer to every day. 

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Lace Alighted

Not content to let the fall go out without a blaze of glory, this lovely lace-leafed Japanese maple set itself on gorgeous fire these past few days, illuminating its backyard space for a finale fit for a queen. This little tree is approaching two decades of reliable performance, a long time span over which it has slowly but steadily increased its spread and weeping beauty. It started off about two feet in circumference, and now extends its elegantly drooping branches a good ten feet beyond that.

It was a bargain buy at the end of a summer season sale at Hewitt’s, and it came in a tight burlap root sack that was cutting into its bark. I wasn’t sure it would survive, and for the first few years it didn’t do much in the way of top growth, but underneath the amended ground something was working. It began to gradually increase its width and the girth of its trunk, imperceptibly at first, and only in the past couple of years did I take true notice of its extensive expansion, and quite happily at that. There’s nothing quite like the loveliness of a plant finally finding comfort in its home.

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Fall Ascendant

This climbing hydrangea usually claims its glory in late spring when it’s covered in lace-like umbrellas of sweetly-scented blooms. They sprinkle their lovely perfume about the backyard just as we are usually opening the pool – the most magical and hopeful time of the year. Their show lasts a good while, it not usually being too terribly hot at that point to quickly wilt and diminish the delicate blossoms – and then the handsome foliage remains lush and green for the duration of the summer. They will appreciate regular watering if conditions get hot and dry (there is such a long way for the water to travel, and the vines wind their way up a good forty feet). 

Happily, their show doesn’t end then – this one likes to go out in a column of fiery sunlight, golden yellow flames licking all the way up the length of its commingling with an ancient pine tree. When the afternoon sunlight pours through the bright foliage, it could be argued that this is a greater show than its late spring bloom. Fall has its powers too, and they are not to be underestimated. 

Some might say there is more magic and enchantment to be found in the unexpected beauty at hand this late in the season. I don’t have a strong argument against that, and it is always the present moment that seems to have the most pull. 

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Painting With Light & Ferns

These beautiful Japanese painted ferns overcame their own 2020 horror story, as early on in the summer season some animal ate them down to the ground. As evidenced here, they recovered in a valiant, and gorgeous, show of defiance and resilience. The afternoon sun of October shows them off to great splendor, and is a reminder that somehow nature endures, no matter how much awfulness humans, and non-humans, may attempt to inflict.

The Japanese painted fern’s delicate beauty belies its hardiness. From a single small specimen planted several years ago, this clumps has expanded, notably by spores – popping up in damp unexpected places (such as around the pool pump) and I’ve managed to transplant them successfully. A couple now populate the side yard garden, lending an additional Japanese element to a space now planted with bamboo, Japanese aralia, and a Japanese maple. It is the peaceful portion of our yard, shaded from the hot afternoon sun, filled with subtle performers who express themselves in soft shades of green and architectural interest rather than boffo-blooms of hot pink or fiery orange. That sort of quiet and respite is necessary in the summer months.

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Purple Glory

The flowers always come more vibrantly at this time of the year, as if sensing their limited time before a hard frost kills them off permanently. Such is the case with these volunteer morning glories. They’ve been self-seeding so prolifically and for so long that they’ve become a bit of a nuisance, so this year I pulled most of them out in part of the clearing and editing process that marked much of our garden efforts. I left a few vines to climb through the Korean lilac and Joe Pye Weed, and here are some of the results. 

For better or worse, morning glories remind me of the earliest bit of fall – that tense time when school is about to begin and we plunge into the routine of routine again, returning to schedules and time constraints that seemed so much more bearable under the sun of summer. This year fall looks a little different, and we are all still adjusting.

In the meantime, the morning glories are giving out one final show, reminding us that there is beauty in the world, even as we approach winter…

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Saving a Bit of Summer Inside

This magnificent lace-leaf philodendron was a quick, unplanned purchase in late spring. After several less-than-stellar investments in this large pot (failed junipers, evergreens, and red-twigged dogwoods) I didn’t bother with anything other than a common home-improvement store specimen, which was only about a foot and a half tall.

Now it’s about three feet high and five to six feet wide after a successful summer on the sunny front porch, lots of water and plant food, and just a touch of love. I texted around and finally found someone willing to take it in before the first hard frost withers it to the ground. My pal Heath picked it up and will try to transition it into indoor life. I’m just thankful it has a chance. We don’t have the room or the light for it, and it’s too beautiful and doing too well to simply give up on it. 

It’s also rather valuable – I saw two philodendrons at Faddegon’s of roughly the same size and stature – one was $187 and the other was $247! That means this will double as Heath’s birthday present, whether he knows it or not. 

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Blaring Perfume in the Night

While the daylight visage of these angel trumpet blooms is impressive, it’s their nighttime maneuvers that hold greater enchantment, as that is when their perfume comes out in full force, permeating the thick air of evening and intoxicating the entire backyard with their sweet fragrance. A single flower is powerful; taken en masse like they were this year, it’s a magnificently sensual experience. 

Traditionally, I’d be stressing out and sendup up all sorts of prayers and voodoo chants to make sure these flowered in tandem with whatever celebratory gatherings we were having in the summer. This year around that’s not even a concern, so I was free to enjoy the natural unfurling of their flowering glory. There’s a necessary lesson in that, and the peace of mind it produced will be remembered far beyond the insanity that is 2020. 

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Autumn in August

Though we have a few more days of August, the Sedum ‘Autumn Joy’ plants won’t hold their bloom, and as the cup plants have begun their decline, it’s a welcome arrival of new blossoms. They are just about on schedule, unlike the Seven Sons Flower tree, which has been in bud for weeks but hasn’t quite begun to spread its sweet perfume and bee-attracting pollen. But we aren’t going to hijack this joyful post with the waywardness of this season/year. 

Like the hosta and the hydrangea, the ubiquitousness of Sedum  ‘Autumn Joy’ – overused by far too many landscaping plans – had caused it to fall out of favor for a number of years. The three plants we had in our garden were ignored and almost abused. I didn’t tend to them with any manure or mulch, I didn’t divide or pamper, and to be honest I didn’t even bother to water them all that much. 

A couple of years ago, however, I noticed a Sedum that has seeded itself outside of our fenced-in pool area, growing in the wild section of the yard. Amused, I watched it intermittently over few years. It kept coming back, and getting larger, all without care, and as it evolved into a handsome plant all by its lonesome, I decided to reward it with a prominent place in the garden bed, with a deep amendment of manure, a thick layer of mulch, and a strong dose of full sunlight. 

This marks its second year in its new space, and it has settled in beautifully. More than that, it’s reminded me of the practically perfect form and behavior of the Sedum family, illuminating the three original plants in a new light. 

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Blasting and Blaring into the Sky

Notoriously difficult to photograph well, at least with my amateurish abilities, the beauty of the angel’s trumpet has never quite translated completely here. Coupled with its magnificent and potent fragrance, the majesty of these potted plants must be seen and experienced in person to do it true justice. 

Towering over all of our container plants – and the fig trees have definitely given it a run for its money – this Brugmansia specimen is only in its second year, but they grow so quickly in the heat and humidity we’ve had this summer that it exudes the stature of an elder plantsman. 

Its magic is most wondrous as night falls, and its flowers glow in the gloaming as they begin to emit a perfume that scents the entire yard, floating over the pool in enchanting fashion. It will linger into the first light of day, and if you get up early enough and tip-toe into the backyard, you can find the intoxicated bees still languidly buzzing about, drawn to its sweet aroma. 

Alluring and captivating, it casts a summer spell unrivaled by any of the other container plants we have growing. 

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After-Storm Contemplation

Many plants don’t like their leaves wet, especially if they’re the slightest bit furry or hairy. Cases in point include tomatoes, clematis, and the begonia seen in these pictures. When possible, I water only the soil around these beauties, to keep them happy. It’s generally a good rule for all plants, as wet leaves in the humid months can lead to mildew and mold, something that is currently afflicting all the peonies. Their otherwise-handsome foliage has been ravaged with powdery mildew, lending a gray, ashen appearance to them, and marring the entire garden. Such things are largely out of control, however, and one of the lessons of the garden is in letting go of that over which we have no say. Such as day-long tropical storm events.

There is just so much shielding one can do for plants in the path of a deluge of wind and rain. And in the natural world, they wouldn’t have a patio for protection anyway, so I try not to stress to much about that. A little rain, while certain plants may not like it on a regular basis, is always good for cleaning things up, getting dust and dirt off the leaves, and refreshing the landscape. 

It’s also pretty, especially when the sun first comes up after a day of gray and loneliness. The rain still clings to these dropping begonia blooms, as if they had to shed a few tears to get over everything. Some storm days are like a release. And then it comes time to dry the tears and get on with the summer. 

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