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The 2018 Holiday Stroll – Part 2

Saturday opened with a burst of happy sunlight, which unabashedly illuminated the undrained kitchen sink. Our time was too precious to be bothered with a five-hour window for a plumber, so Kira came up with the idea of transferring the dish water to the bathroom for draining. She took a plastic container and scooped the water into a pot. Once it was full, I ran it into the bathroom and poured it down the toilet. Our bucket brigade hummed along for several trips until the sink was mostly drained. Such is the making of a meal in the midst of Mercury in retrograde madness. We had a fast breakfast of panettone and tea, then began the stroll in earnest.

We began with a route from an earlier stroll, turning right onto Columbus and stopping at the Luke Adams gift shop, which was still closed. Apparently we were just a bit too early for its 10:30 opening, so we walked on and headed up Mass Ave. Kira loves Dorothy’s Boutique, so we paused in the costume store where she found a cozy winter hat in the style of Elmer Fudd. I told her not to do it, but when you’ve known me for twenty years you know enough not to listen.

As we crossed Boylston, the wind picked up. In spite of the sun, December’s chill was in full effect. We ducked into Muji for a moment of sweetly-scented calm, before braving the frenzy of Forever 21. (Where else can one find a unicorn headdress for a Rainbow Unicorn Holiday Party that we’re hosting in a few weeks?) Kira found a top (to make up for some items she forgot to bring) at Uniqlo, where we walked the rainbow staircase and realized it would soon be time for a proper meal. After browsing a few more stores, we took our lunch at Cafeteria. Like Sonsie’s, Cafeteria has become one of those Newbury mainstays that I have largely avoided, for no real reason other than I assume there will be time to visit in the future. On this day, we tried it out for the first time. The drinks were good, but the bacon was soggy and flabby, so hit and miss, and it’s now on the record books. We meandered along the rest of Newbury, turned back on Boylston, then headed to the condo for a very quick break before heading into Cambridge.

These little breaks, of rest or rejuvenation, are usually the favored corners of memory, where a few choice relics occupy stately yet subtle space in some cherished cabinet of curios. The sun streamed in through the bedroom bay window, and it was my favorite time of the day to be home there. It was due to rain that night and all the next day, so we stopped and took notice of the light. Always make time to bask in the glory when it’s good enough to present itself.

I tried on my outfit for the Boston Children’s Holiday Hour, glittering in the ample sunlight, while Kira lounged on the couch, resting tired feet and sipping tea. It was the perfect little siesta, and without reservations for dinner, or any concrete plans at all for that matter, we didn’t need to rush. Still, there were dangers and wastes involved in getting too cozy and comfy, so we rounded up a second wind, changed into evening attire, and headed back out, where the sun was already well on its way down.

{To be continued…}

 

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The 2018 Holiday Stroll – Part 1

Kira and I tried to figure out how long we have been doing these Boston Holiday Strolls, and the nearest we could guess was that this marked our seventh year. As such, we tried to change things up a bit which left us feeling slightly off-kilter. Mercury still being in retrograde didn’t help matters much either, as we had to contend with a kitchen sink that didn’t drain, key forgotten wardrobe items (I’m told that when you’re wearing a sheer shirt and no bra, some other sort of undershirt is required), and some uncharacteristic indecision on my part. (See, I’m so much better with an itinerary.)

It began on Friday afternoon, when I did some shopping for the upcoming Children’s Holiday Hour (which now has a planned nine children in attendance, and their various parents). I stopped at the market to pick up the ingredients for a quick pasta dish for Kira, then returned to the condo to finish the holiday decorating and making of a meal.

The candles were lit, and I was hoping to be too. I tried concocting a gin/Campari/grapefruit/rosemary cocktail that was largely a failure, but it looked pretty enough for a holiday picture. Taste-wise, it was a big fat no, thank you Mercury. As the kitchen sink filled with the incidental water from filling pasta pots, washing hands, and rinsing various utensils, dinner came together and by the time Kira arrived we were almost ready to eat. After a quick gift exchange and toast, we sat down to dine and decompress.

Some of the best moments of our Holiday Stroll weekend are the ones in which we are not strolling or roaming around Boston. Catching up with an old friend over dinner, as candles flicker and Christmas music plays softly in the background, will always be one of my favorite holiday escapades. As will our annual viewing of ‘The Man Who Came to Dinner’. Before the latter, we hunkered down in our holiday pajamas, popped a pair of sweet potatoes in the oven for our mid-point movie break (they pause for ‘Hot Sweets’ during the skating scene) and prepared for the show. Sleep came, as it usually does, before we finished the whole thing, but upon waking we saw the happy final scenes, at which point the strolling portion of our weekend finally began.

{To be continued…}

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Let’s Stroll Again

Like we did last Christmas… and the Christmas before… and the Christmas before

This weekend marks my annual Holiday Stroll with Kira. I think it’s our sixth or seventh, maybe even our eighth, and clearly no one’s counting. It’s become one of my favorite holiday excursions, whenever we manage to do it, and every year we seem to add a few new components while doing our best to maintain a couple of traditions. One mainstay is the viewing of ‘The Man Who Came to Dinner‘ – an old Bette Davis film set at Christmas time. At one point, while ice skating, they purchase a pair of ‘hot sweets’ – apparently baked sweet potatoes were once sold like hot dogs at a baseball game. As a nod to that scene, we bake a few in the oven and pause the movie when the skating part comes on to try them. We are invariably disappointed and left wondering what all the fuss is about, but we do it for the ritual.

Another tradition is a bowl of soup, preferably pho, and often somewhere in Chinatown. The latest thing we’ve added is a walk in Cambridge, from Porter Square to Harvard usually, where we peruse a couple of Tibetan stores and find something warm to wear.

The one year I did a full-blown and intricately-detailed itinerary was a year when it rained on the parade, throwing the entire minute-by-minute production into a chaotic shambles. Since then, I’ve avoided such intensive planning. This whole tradition began on a whim, and is best executed in the same manner. I can’t wait to see where this year’s takes us…

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A Beautiful Boston Reunion Before the Cape – Part 1

There was rain threatened for the first part of the weekend and, much worse when rain is concerned, wind as well. The weather was changing and a temperature drop was imminent. Somehow, I avoided the wet stuff on the ride from Albany to Boston, but as I parked and headed to the condo, there was a discernible damp chill to the rushing air. I had only a few hours before the rain was scheduled to start, so I did some power shopping and planned to stop at the market to get the ingredients for a risotto. Kira and I hadn’t seen each other in months, and I was going to make her dinner so we wouldn’t have to brave the elements, especially when they were about to turn so dire. Still, a few hours was ample time to find some beauty left in the light, and that’s what these few photos capture.

As I went along on a quick shopping spree, the day advanced and turned colder. The wind picked up and it was a cruel one, whipping and lashing about with no respite. I’d round each corner hoping for a spot of relief, but they only revealed another rush of icy air. The storm was coming.

As if an antidote for this shift in weather, the very beginning of the holiday shopping season was at hand. A few places had Christmas music playing, but I didn’t mind. Someone recently said that people who put their Christmas trees up earlier were happier people. I say fuck putting up a tree this early – at least in our house – but more power to anyone if it makes them happier. That would only serve to stress me out, given that we use a live tree and there’s no way it would make it to Christmas, much less little Christmas in January when Andy tends to take the tree down. That said, I embraced the early signals of the season. The day was so bleak those signs warmed the heart just when it was needed.

The bustle of a market on a Friday afternoon was a happy confusion. I procured the necessary items for a quick dinner, then dragged the shopping bags and groceries home. By the time I made it back to the condo, it was already dark. The wind had only grown more vicious and the rain began just as I started unpacking the bags…

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Lulled to Sleep by a Fountain in the Fall

Let’s begin with one of the most annoying aspects of our Boston abode: the drumbeat of a rainstorm as it falls on the air conditioner unit that hangs outside the bedroom window. I will never complain about having a bay window in the back of our condo; I’m told they are a luxury in Boston. But I need to find a way to combat the loud drumming of water falling on the metal AC. It is incredibly loud, like a snare drum that magnifies every drop of water, drilling it into your head in some mild form of water torture. Once in a while, it’s soft enough to be a comfort, but anything more than a sprinkling has it sounding off like a half-time show. I’ve thought of putting a piece of shag carpet out to lessen the impact, but I don’t want to make it too inviting for birds or other critters. Suggestions are welcome.

Now onto one of my favorite aspects of the Boston abode: sleeping with the windows open in the fall. When the nights just start turning cooler and the breeze blows in from the ocean, it’s time to open the windows and air out any remaining stuffiness of summer. I love hunkering down in a fuzzy robe, sitting by the window, and allowing the wind to rustle the curtains and remind me of how cozy the condo can be.

A few weeks ago I had the lucky circumstance to be in Boston and experience both extremes. The first night was ravaged by a storm, and I was awakened at about 3 in the morning by the rattling and pounding of rain upon the air conditioner. Tossing and turning in bed, I cursed the timing of the thing, even if I was glad to get it over with before the start of the next day. After getting its tears out, the next night was breezy and cool, but not taking any chances on a 3 AM wake up storm, I moved myself out onto the couch, which I will sleep on once in a great while. The front windows were open and the fountain in the middle of Braddock Park was trickling its water down in the most soothing fashion: the exact opposite of the tumult of the night before. Soon the fountain will be turned off for the season, and I was grateful to be there at that moment. A thick, plush blanket was all I needed as the night turned colder. The sounds of gently falling water and the occasional whisper of a breeze masked the distant noise of the city. Alone in the condo, I felt a profound feeling of peace settle over me as I settled into sleep.

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Boston Anniversary Recap 2018

The first lilac one sniffs in spring brings back the rush of all the lilacs you’ve smelled before. It signals the memory power of scent, going back all the way to childhood, to happiness, to innocence. On our first day in Boston, we inhaled the sweet perfume and were reminded of all our Maine visits, all our springs opening the pool, all our youthful hopes and promises. It was a perfect marker for the weekend, and this is the perfect time to encapsulate it all in one convenient link-filled post:

Boston Anniversary with Andy~ Part 1

Boston Anniversary with Andy ~ Part 2

Boston Anniversary with Andy ~ Part 3

Boston Anniversary with Andy ~ Part 4

Boston Anniversary with Andy ~ Part 5

Boston Anniversary with Andy ~ Part 6

Boston Anniversary with Andy ~ Part 7

As for the lilacs, ours will be in the midst of their own show soon enough. Now we have one more lilac memory to add to the gorgeous tapestry already in our hearts.

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 7

The clouds started to roll in a little on Sunday morning, but we would somehow escape the rain until we departed. Once in a while the universe smiles like that. We slept in ~ a rare indulgence these days when the late start to the season has me scrambling on most weekends. Our reservations at the Bristol Lounge weren’t until noon, so we took our time getting up. There is luxury in simply lying in bed on a lazy Sunday morning.

There is luxury in a brunch at the Four Seasons too, and since that’s where we were headed we mustered the fortitude to face the day and carry on. Andy ordered an Uber and I documented the whole thing per request.

After 18 years, I’m finally starting to understand what sets Andy’s mind at ease while traveling: a good hotel (preferably with a suite) and a decent car to get us around. Coffee for waking and Cole Porter for listening. On this trip, three out of four isn’t bad.

For the occasion of our anniversary brunch, I opted for the same cologne I wore for our wedding day: ‘Green Irish Tweed’ by Creed. It’s a very special scent, a birthday gift from Andy, and I only wear it for our anniversary (I want it to last for life, and it’s a small bottle). I paired it with this silk scarf, which complemented my infamous jacket.

While we usually go for a low-key lunch (the Bristol burger is renowned for good reason), on Sunday there is only a brunch option, so we splurged for the decadent buffet feast (and I filled plates like the one you see below so many times I lost count).

After such gluttony it’s best to walk some of it off, and since the rain was holding off we went across the street and back to the Boston Public Garden.

One of the swans was swimming then, and we rounded the pond to find its rump in the air as it sought its meal. Echoed by an advancing swan boat, the real and the reproduced floated by one another in whimsical fashion while a stray duck photobombed the scene.

Around us the garden was in bloom. Sweet apple blossoms scented the breeze as white petals floated gently down to the ground, gathering like freshly-fallen snow. We made our way out just as more clouds rolled in.

We took our time getting back, as much from our full stomachs as by a reluctance to end the idyllic weekend. Everything is slower on Sunday. I wanted to extend it all and stay away from the real-world concerns and obligations that waited in New York. Consolation is found in the thought of returning in the summer. The beds will be changed then ~ filled with tropical foliage and perhaps the flaming flowers of canna or begonias. There will be another show to see, another restaurant to try, and another weekend of escape. Until then, there will be these memories.

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 6

As we neared the end of our Public Garden stroll, we came across the gentleman who had provided the enchanting bit of ehru music on our wedding day, and can often be found here on gorgeous days. Some aspects of the day you don’t even realize you miss until they show up later than expected. The occidental tune added to the beauty around us and we slowly withdrew from the garden. We shall return in the summer.

Taking Boylston back toward the condo for the afternoon siesta, we ducked into the Lenox Hotel, where we spent my 40thbirthday in the Judy Garland suite. A gold lion sentinel stood guard outside, while inside the lobby the couch beckoned for us to sit down. More lions, of the stuffed animal variety, lined the wall. Perhaps we’ll return to that suite someday…

In the meantime, we made do with the condo, once again resplendent in the afternoon light. A quick nap and change of clothes, and then it was time for dinner.

In what used to be the location of Sibling Rivalry, we were early enough to get an outdoor table at Barcelona, right next door to the Boston Center for the Arts (where we had tickets for ‘Love! Valour! Compassion!).

The meal was all right, marred slightly by some service issues, but you can find those details in my TripAdvisor entries. 

After the lackluster drinks and dinner at Barcelona, we returned to a restaurant that has always done a solid pour: Aquitaine. Next year we should probably just make an anniversary reservation here, as we somehow manage to find our way to the chic bar for their delicious cocktail listing. It was the perfect pre-theater moment.

After the show, we walked off the dinners of the previous two nights, meandering beneath the street-lamp-lit blooms of the cherry trees. A joyous ending to a joyous day…

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 5

Eight years ago our wedding ceremony took place in a quiet, verdant stretch of the Boston Public Garden, where three young cherry trees formed a little triangle, and an elderly Kwanzan and Metasequoia tree rose to form a majestic backdrop. Beyond them the walking bridge over the swan pond elegantly connected both sides of the water. Today, the sun matched the majesty of that original day as Andy and I made our way into the garden.

Ducks and geese swam in the water, while squirrels jumped and hopped on land. Little birds swooped in and chirped from their tree perches. It was an idyllic scene.

This remains one of my favorite places in the world. No matter what else is going on in the city, and to a larger extent in the world, I always find a sense of peace here. Whether it’s during the glory of spring, the ripen full greenery of summer, the fiery last show of fall, or the delicate slumber of winter, there is always a hushed sense of reverence and contentment here. It is here in the pretty flowering of the cherry trees, the gentle curves of the Japanese pagoda, or the graceful neck of a swan.

Today there was noise and celebration too, as spring had overtaken the space in a riotous collection of bursting tulips and excited tourists. Vivid reds and cheery yellows lit up the beds (usually we are just at the end of their show, but this year they waited for us). Setting off fireworks against their green surroundings and a bright blue sky, they shouted happy greetings to all who passed.

We walked along the edge of the pond, saw a boisterous goose chase another out of the way, said hello to a friendly squirrel, then crossed the walking bridge, pausing in the middle in the same spot we posed on our wedding day.

Two swans nested beside the pond beneath us. We watched their quiet repose before continuing on our way…

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 4

We walked through the glorious morning and made a couple of fragrance stops of Neiman Marcus and Barneys. Disappointingly, the Copley Square Neiman Marcus had stopped stocking Diana Vreeland Parfums, leaving me at a loss to try one of their latest, ‘Wildly Attractive’, which was really our sole reason for being in that store. Moving on to Barneys, I found the delicious ‘Cologne Indelibile’ under the Frederic Malle label and was instantly under its spell. A perfect accompaniment to Tom Ford’s ‘Neroli Portofino’ but slightly longer-lasting, it will be this summer’s signature scent ~ all lemon and bergamot and orange blossom glory.

From there, we walked along Newbury Street toward the Boston Public Garden. Ever since we’ve been married, we stop by Shreve, Crump and Low, where we got our wedding rings, to have them washed. It’s a tradition, and one of my favorites. There’s something formal and ritualistic about it ~ it reminds me of that day eight years ago when we made our commitment to each other official. It’s a lovely reminder of all that we vowed and promised. And it’s a lovely thing that only Andy and I share, something I have with no one else.

While we wait, there are always other things to peruse ~ like Burmese rubies and Pink sapphires. Of course, there are things that appeal to Andy as well; he has been wanting a watch from Shreve, Crump and Low ever since we got our wedding rings. And if I’d started saving up all those years ago, I still would be nowhere close to the $17,000 price tag on his preferred time piece. Still, it’s nice to look, and the friendly salespeople were more than happy to snare a couple celebrating their anniversary and bring them up a flight of stairs to their watch showroom.

Incredulous at what they must have thought was in our wallets, I whispered to Andy in disbelief, “Do these people actually think we can afford these watches??” I had just looked at a $27,000 rose gold hot pink model studded with pink sapphires or something. Fortunately, my poker face is good, and I nonchalantly moved on to the next price point as if he were talking about 27,000 blades of grass. One day, post-lottery, I’ll find a way to get Andy one of these time pieces. But that day is not yet here, and we walked out with only our sparkling rings and free smiles.

The Public Garden was ahead of us, but we took a slight detour through the Taj to see their floral display, which was rather unimpressive compared to the piles of peonies and cherry blooms that were there during our stay. We headed back into the sunshine…

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 3

Upon every anniversary weekend, echoing a moment I had on our original wedding day, I find a little nook of time in which I’m on my own. Whether it’s a quick trip to the store, a minor shopping excursion, or a simple walk when Andy is occupied elsewhere, I invariably find a pocket of solitude that makes me miss him, allowing me to appreciate his company just a little bit more. On this weekend, it was on Saturday morning. To ease the amount of walking Andy would have to do, I went to pick up breakfast at the nearby cafe. It was here where I found The Moment Alone.

Stepping out onto Braddock Park, I paused and admired the island in the middle of the street. The fountain was on and the sound of water and birds made for a lovely soundtrack. When the sun is at its earliest and latest ~ that’s when it’s most beautiful on our street. Well, much of the morning is enchanting when the sun is out, and into this scene I made my solitary way.

Cherry trees and magnolias painted pink before a blue sky, and all the beauty of the day lent my mission a magic not always apparent when running errands. I slowed my step and took my time, soaking in the glorious promise of the day. Andy would still be in the shower and there was no rush.

Overhead, flowering pears reached across the street and intertwined their branches, as if holding hands above those of us who passed beneath. (A glimmer of this magic is repeated in the immediate aftermath of a snowstorm, but it is far less appealing then.)

I made it back with our pastry (and an extra macaron for Andy) and we looked out onto the blossoming street. The Washing of the Rings was next…

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 2

Andy has never been a big drinker, but every once in a while he enjoys a good cocktail. A Bombay gin and Fevertree tonic with a lemon twist or a glass of shiraz are his usual go-to’s, but last year he tried a Hemingway daquiri at Hawthorne, and was immediately enamored of it. Since that time he’s been on the hunt for another establishment that approximated the glory of that original Hawthorne experience, but most have failed (including yours truly, who followed the online recipe to the drop but still couldn’t quite replicate the magic of that first experience).

This year, I incorporated a stop at the Hawthorne before dinner (which was conveniently right next door) so he could get his Hemingway, and while it was no longer a listed feature on their cocktail menu, they were happy to oblige with this old-fashioned cocktail classic. I opted for the ‘Swan Song’ ~ with gin, rose vermouth, honey and bitters. (We will come back this summer to try the ‘Myra Breckinridge Swizzle’ ~ it’s got absinthe, which will go beautifully with the next show.)

Next door, the Island Creek Oyster Bar was where I’d made dinner reservations. I’ve been trying to get us reservations for the past several years, but always waited until the last minute to book a weekend night and it never worked out. Happily, the wait was worth it for the oysters and calamari alone.

Sated by the dinner and drinks, we climbed into an Uber and headed home. The next day was the traditional washing of the rings and we needed our rest…

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Boston Anniversary with Andy 2018 ~ Part 1

The weather was kind to us from beginning to end. When we arrived in Boston the rain had stopped and the air was hot and humid. Andy was following the progress of the storms in Albany ~ eyeing something about a Bow-flex or Bow-echo or bow-and-arrow ~ I was just thankful to be far from the meteorological madness. The sun would smile upon us for most of our weekend, and the rain would hold off until the very last moment we were leaving. The previous few days of high heat had brought out every possible spring bloom that might have been hesitant to let go, and we arrived to a city filled with flowers at the height of their beauty.

Andy was fighting off a sore throat and fever, but he powered his way through it like a trooper. I’m grateful for that, because with all the changes that this year brings (we’ll be holding off on our annual Ogunquit trip until September) I didn’t want to forsake our anniversary tradition in Boston.

We were there, once again, at the perfect time: everything was in bloom. The daffodils were just finishing up, the tulips were in their splendor, and the apple and cherry blossoms hung from every branch. American dogwood blooms (or bracts as the case may be) fluttered like white and pink butterflies on their bare branches.

Even the vinca was throwing its small purple stars out from its glossy groundcover base. A new variety of bleeding heart, with this magnificent chartreuse foliage to set off the pink, heart-shaped blooms, was a lovely surprise along the Southwest Corridor Park.

Most thrilling for us, and we paused significantly in our various strolls to make them matter, were the lilacs. We will miss them in Maine this spring, and seeing them here was enough to conjure a new happy memory. We pulled a branch down to our noses and inhaled the signature scent of spring and the summer to come.

I’d padded our weekend with a few moments of rest, which we elongated for Andy’s recuperation. To be honest, I find myself enjoying an afternoon siesta more and more as the years go by, and in the condo, as the sun streams in from 3 PM onward, there is no better place to rest and relax.

Our anniversary weekend had begun in beautiful fashion…

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Review: ‘Love! Valour! Compassion!’ – Zeitgeist Stage Company

A year before Matthew Bourne would turn all the waterfowl of ‘Swan Lake’ into men, Terrence McNally had the guys of ‘Love! Valour! Compassion!’ unabashedly doing their plies in tights and tutus. Back then it was ahead of its time, and well over two decades later it still retains much of its verve, nerve, and sentiment. I was lucky enough to have seen that landmark Broadway production and its incomparable cast, and the shadow that it produced still lingers in my mind. It was 1995, and for some reason I insisted that both of my parents attend the play with me – a none-too-veiled yet still unspoken attempt at coming out to them. I wasn’t expecting all the words that would be uttered, nor all the full-frontal male nudity that would so flagrantly parade before our eyes, but I was brazen enough not to care, and by the end I think we were all so moved by the play that the rest of the stuff was almost beside the point.

It was reportedly McNally’s ode to the gay friends he’d had in his life, and at the time I remember feeling an intense longing for this glimpse into adult gay relationships and the varying versions of them: romantic, platonic, antagonistic, unconditional, extremely-conditional, wantonly sexual, polite, provocative, ugly and pretty. Revisiting the play all these years later as produced by the Zeitgeist Stage Company, I see it not solely as a celebration of the lives of several gay men, but as a eulogy as well – not only for those of us lost to AIDS, but for a time in our lives. A time before cel-phones, before online dating, when people looked at and spoke to each other in meaningful and discomforting directness. A time when we couldn’t hide behind computer screens or shut out the world by looking down at our text threads. Some it does feel dated (I cringed at the Donald Trump reference from when he was a joke more than a threat) but the interaction among the men, and the way they change and reveal themselves, is very much timeless.

The cozy Plaza Theatre at the Boston Center for the Arts provides a non-descript background for the minimalist scenery and effective lighting, which manage to convey the shifting scenes of summer in seemingly impossible ways, at times evoking a sprawling lake-side estate affectionately dubbed ‘Manderley’, spirited scenes of tennis and dinner and skinny-dipping, and even a road-rage-fueled car-ride. Such theatrical magic comes courtesy of director David J. Miller and the talented cadre of gentlemen he’s assembled to complete a picture-perfect ensemble.

In the original production, despite the talents of every cast member, two lights shined brightest: John Glover and Nathan Lane as John/James and Buzz respectively, who managed to dwarf all else around them with scene-biting ferocity. In this version, things are more evened-out, making for a more powerful sense of ensemble work. Brooks Reeves has the difficult dual role that Glover originated, but manages to acquit himself nicely in the 11thhour soliloquy when simply by turn of chair he shifts between two vastly disparate brothers. As Buzz, Jeremy Johnson gets the funniest lines, and though the over-the-top theater-queen role practically begs for overdone turkeydom, Johnson keeps it grounded, lending a very powerful poignancy to his budding kinship with James.

As the “role-models” in a 14-year relationship, Joey C. Pelletier and Keith Foster bring nuanced complexity to their characters Perry and Arthur. The least likable character in the lot, and the catalyst for some of the night’s most fiery moments, Perry is the difficult hinge around which McNally’s ambivalent criticism of the slightly-self-loathing middle-aged gay man turns. Finding the redemptive moments is the key to putting him over, and Pelletier is up to the task, unafraid to reveal Perry’s own inner-conflict, outward manifestations of intolerance, and ultimately heartwarming commitment to Arthur. Working for and against the hot-blooded Latino stereotype, Michael J. Blunt’s Ramon kicks off the drama with his preening, penis-heavy performance (instead of drinking from a silver cup, he admires his reflection in it). Ramon’s dance career is taking off just as Gregory’s is ending. David Anderson brings brittle emotional intensity to the host of the festivities, his watery transparency on the verge of breaking down or putting someone’s hand into a garbage disposal. The disintegration of his career as a dancer is at the opposite parabolic end of Ramon’s, which adds to the tension of his relationship with Bobby. Cody Sloan, in the role originated by Justin Kirk, portrays Bobby with a wisdom belying his years.

An ensemble piece is only as strong as its weakest character, but there is no weak link here. The cast manages to lift each other to greater heights, which is the secret of solid ensemble work. A telling testament to the legacy of McNally’s words, along with an impeccable cast on top of their game, this production of ‘Love! Valour! Compassion!’ is a moving reminder of an era already almost gone. In some ways an antidote to a predecessor like ‘The Boys in the Band’ (currently being revived on Broadway), this is one of those gay plays that deserves greater recognition.

{The Zeitgeist Stage Company‘s production of ‘Love! Valour! Compassion!’ is playing at the Plaza Theatre of the Boston Center for the Arts through May 19, 2018. Tickets may be purchased here. }

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Boston Trunks Show

I saw these BoSox shorts on the internet the other day and thought they might be perfect for our BroSox Adventure in August. (Yes, that’s the official name I’ve given to the annual Boston Red Sox trip that Skip and I have been making for the last few years.) I like them because they are absolutely ridiculous, but the integration of the red socks is subtle enough to escape outright obvious notice for those unfamiliar with the logo. A few questions:

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