Author Archives: Alan Ilagan

Beside the Harbor, a Derby or Two…

As often happens for our anniversary weekend, the Kentucky Derby was taking place somewhere (I assume Kentucky) so the hats and fascinators and people watching were about to turn splendid. Not many were turning it out on Friday night, but every day should be a hat day, so I flipped one on for photo purposes only. 

I purposely left the itinerary vague for this portion of the journey, as I wasn’t familiar with what we might find at the harbor. The Palm Restaurant wasn’t quite in the Seaport, and with questionable weather I kept us closer, which meant the Boston Harbor Hotel. More than a happy compromise, the bar at the hotel was one of those wondrously old-school places ~ dark wood and moody lighting ~ with an abundance of classic and new cocktails on the menu. My idea of heaven. Andy’s too, especially when he discovered they could make a Brown Derby, his new favorite.

Our exuberant server, who found just about everything we did or said ‘a true pleasure’ smiled and kept us supplied with special chips and peppers and olives. Heaven just kicked it up a notch.

I opted for the Last Word, my spring go-to cocktail, and continued feasting on the small bites before us. A group of fancily-attired young people walked by ~ a prom or something similar was happening and they were boarding a ship. The world conspired in celebration.

I don’t spend much time in this section of Boston ~ and I should. It’s classic and historical. It reminds one of how important this area once was with its reliance on incoming ships. The same stones that line some of the streets have been here for hundreds of years. These stones saw the American Revolution. They were washed with the blood of soldiers. They have endured silently, watching with blind eyes, waiting with no sense of time. There are ghosts here too. That’s part of the wonder of Boston. Steeped with the stuff of history, it lives and breathes in and of the past. Not in a dusty, antiquated way ~ in a vibrant, life-affirming stance ~ stalwart and enduring ~ the kind of history that now finds two middle-aged married gentlemen hurrying to a fancy dinner at The Palm…

The restaurant was just across the street. Andy switched to a Hemingway daiquiri (not quite as good as the ice-filled version that Hawthorne serves, which is the one that won Andy over a few years ago). Memories build on memories, and the tapestry of our shared history is richly woven into shared days and nights like filaments of gold, sparkling with love and happiness and wonder…

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Our 9th Anniversary Begins in Boston!

The weather report for the entire weekend looked dismal and grim. Rain was scheduled for Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and though I’m loath to take those reports with anything but a grain of salt, it looked best to expect and prepare for the worst. Fantasies of a spring fashion wonderland would need to wait for another weekend. Still, one has to hope for a glimpse of sunlight, or at least wear a Burberry trench to make the best of it. It also helps to have an arsenal of peppy scents to brighten the mood.

To that end, and our anniversary weekend beginning, a bit of Tom Ford’s ‘Venetian Bergamot’ was in order. It had been a birthday gift from Andy on my 40th, and one that still takes me back to the Judy Garland suite at the Lenox Hotel, where we were greeted with a lion and a bottle of champagne.

Itinerary in tow (Andy likes a plan just as much as I do, thank you very much) we made a soft landing into town, relaxing into the weekend after a rainy drive. So far, the wet stuff was not affecting Boston. Buffeted by the sea, we were somehow skirting the showers, but the threat of rain was omnipresent in the gray skies, so we stayed close to the condo. It remains the best place to be during a storm.

While the April showers extended their stay into this month, the May flowers refused to be daunted, and for the remainder of our weekend the flowering trees and bulbs would make a dreamy backdrop for all our Boston enchantment.

A chartreuse bleeding heart lit up our walk along the Southwest Corridor Park, while a canary poppy nodded its wet head, shaking off the rain and beaming in radiance. We headed to the harbor, and all felt right with the world…

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On A Cold, Cole Night ~ Music of Love

IT WAS JUST ONE OF THOSE THINGS

JUST ONE OF THOSE CRAZY FLINGS

ONE OF THOSE BELLS THAT NOW AND THEN RINGS

JUST ONE OF THOSE THINGS…

An old Cole Porter CD spins on an already-old-fashioned CD player, the odd whirring and quiet clicking before it begins is a throwback of itself. Outside, a spattering of rain continues the rather dismal spring we’ve had of late. It comes in fits and false starts, a glimpse of sunshine soon mitigated by cloud cover and showers. The stereo strikes a similar note of indecision, not quite ready to start, buzzing in stalled fashion before finally beginning the song. Only love seems capable of standing still and moving forward at the same time.

Our Boston Anniversary Adventure is about to begin, and a song by one of Andy’s favorite artists begins its melody, setting the scene to come…

IT WAS JUST ONE OF THOSE NIGHTS

JUST ONE OF THOSE FABULOUS FLIGHTS

A TRIP TO THE MOON ON GOSSAMER WINGS

JUST ONE OF THOSE THINGS…

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Tiny Threads: An insignificant Series

If you have something nasty or negative to say about Madonna, put it on your own social media pages, not mine. (I realize not as many people will see it, but that’s your own issue.)

#TinyThreads

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Filler Post

Do not be mistaken – this is not a Tiny Thread. 

Or part of the insignificant Series. 

It is, in fact, much less.

Filler.

This is a filler post. 

I’ve fallen behind, so you get this placeholder.

A promise for better things.

I promise.

 

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A Late Anniversary Recap

Andy and I are just coming off an early anniversary trip to Boston. Today marks our real wedding date, but it’s hard to get away on a Tuesday, so we had it early. Some years it works out that way, and after nine years of married life and nineteen of cohabitation, we can be a little flexible on such matters. On with the recap…

It began in sweet fashion with these magnolia blooms

It was gonna be May

Tiny Threads continued to unravel.

Retail bliss may be found in downtown Albany. 

Gratuitous Pietro Boselli naked shots. 

Florals for spring feet.

I warned you but nobody listened. 

Gratuitous Cristiano Ronaldo underwear shots. 

Plum crazy

The weekend everybody went to Boston: Part One and Part Two.

Boston bloom perfume

Gratuitous Zac Efron nude shots. 

Dazzling in downtown Albany. 

Camping out at the Met Gala 2019.

Our 9th wedding anniversary.

Hunks of the Day included Jason Elliott, Gavin Leatherwood, Eric Michael Krop, and Ammed Tuniziani.

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Nine Fine Years

More than perhaps anything else, a marriage is a journey. It is a trip through time with someone that you love and with whom you want to spend all the days to come. Granted, there are days when it’s more difficult than others (and everyone knows I am often more difficult than others) but it’s always a choice to stay on the journey together, and Andy and I still stand behind that choice.

As far as anniversaries go, nine is fine. Nothing too showy or spectacular, and no need to re-tread the original by recreating what we did the first time (we’re saving that plan for #10). This was a quieter, simpler celebration that was a comfort and balm to our hearts. I’ll get to those posts in a couple of days, so come back if you want to see how we do #9.

Happy anniversary, Drew!

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The Met Gala 2019

A few of the selections from the best red, err, pink carpet of the year. 

The Met Gala 2019 was inspired by the theme of ‘Camp’ which is fertile ground for all the shit-slayers. 

(Lady Gaga has already had FOUR outfit changes. And Billy Porter came in Cleopatra-style, carried by six shirtless gentlemen. And Jared Leto gave head to Shawn Mendes right there on the pink carpet.)

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Dazzling in Downtown Albany

There was a time when most of us didn’t use Photoshop (a few of us still don’t) and these photos, in their dazzling brilliance and un-retouched power, are a reminder that nature, at her best, doesn’t need any help in that department. On a recent walk in downtown Albany, the sun was out and these flowers were in bloom. They stopped me in my tracks with their colorful siren calls, begging to be captured in some way – by word, by music, by painting, by photograph – anything to retain as a keepsake. I did my best, but it pales in comparison to memory.

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Zac Efron and His Naked Ass

Zac Efron’s nude booty has been featured here before, but for his turn as Ted Bundy in ‘Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil and Vile’ he’s showing his naked ass off again, in a little more explicit fashion. Given its serial killer subject matter, this is one of those films that may best be viewed by isolating the naked male celebrity bits. No one who comes here regularly is going to complain about that kind of editing, so I suppose now is a good time to recount all the times Zac Efron got naked here:

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Perfumed Boston Blooms

It is not a particularly showy plant. Its foliage is common, albeit handsome enough. It’s blooms – white tinged outwardly with rose when in bud, are small, produced en-masse so they form quiet snowballs that prefer the understory of plantings, hiding and blending into the background. But their scent – that exquisite perfume – is what puts the Korean spice viburnum on the landscaping map. One bush is enough to fill a small yard with fragrance, and even in the expanse of Boston, a few specimens often leave passers-by wondering where the scent originates.

While their looks fade into the environment, this is the time for other showstoppers, such as these back-lit Narcissus and the cloud of pink Kwanzan cherry blooms seen below.

The crab apples are also in bloom, and they do have a fragrance, unlike the cherries. It is the quintessential scent of hope and spring – all sweetness and freshness and delicacy.

They look especially lovely against a bright blue sky. We might complain about how cool and damp the weather has been of late, but such conditions prolong the life of their blooms. It’s always a trade-off.

Forget Christmas, this is the most wonderful time of the year.

Hello, May flowers.

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The Weekend Everyone Went To Boston ~ Part 2

After such a tumultuous night of inclement weather, the morning, despite the wind, felt fresh and new. The sun was actually out, something that hasn’t happened as much as it typically does at this time of the year, so we bid adieu to the glorious Fairmont and headed into the city for some shopping. Clouds rolled in and out, but throughout the windy morning there were glimpses of blue sky ~ the promise of spring.

An early lunch at Parrish Cafe (Kira had the Hot and Dirty Pig Burger and I opted for the Flour BLT, forgoing my usual Zuni Roll ~ damn that thing is good) followed by some shopping in Downtown Crossing left us more than spent for an afternoon siesta. Mom and Emi were in the neighborhood for an early dinner, so they stopped by to see the condo, and after they left we took a quick nap as the sun slanted through the bedroom windows.

Despite the sun’s arrival, it was no match for the wind and the chill of this Boston weekend, so I was once again on the OpenTable hunt for a nearby restaurant that we hadn’t done to death. We found one relatively close ~ the Westland ~ and it turned out to be a great choice ~ casual and comfortable, with a few old-fashioned classics, like Oysters Casino, which we tried in a moment of ‘Mad Men’ inspiration. (Everything fried is new again.)

The next morning was sunny ~ it’s always sunny on the day you have to leave. Kira and I joined my Mom and Emi at The Friendly Toast for breakfast, then stopped at Cafe Madeleine for some macarons for Andy. Coming full circle, by the time this is posted he and I will be back in town celebrating our wedding anniversary. That seems a fine and fitting place to end this quick Boston weekend recap. Looking forward to the next adventure…

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The Weekend Everyone Went To Boston ~ Part 1

The universe is too often an all-or-nothing type of beast. When it rains it pours. There is no happy medium. Everything or nothing in moderation. Such was what happened last weekend in Boston, when Kira, Sherri, Skip, Mia, Jack, my Mom and my niece all found ourselves in that fair city (with some rather unfair weather). I was thrilled with the circumstances ~ having some of my favorite people in my favorite city at the same time was a happy confluence of events. The stars rarely align in so fortuitous a fashion. (It turns out there was a Cher concert at the end of the weekend too, so Boston was very much the place to be.)

While Sherri and Skip and the kids stayed at the condo, I got to try out the Fairmont Copley Plaza and realize a dream I’ve had since I was a kid. Camping out at a hotel is one of my favorite things to do, and when it’s the Grande Dame of Boston hotels it is a special treat. Carly Copley, the current canine mascot, greeted me at the door flanked by two golden lions, and I strutted down Peacock Alley to check in.

My Mom was hosting Emi at the Copley Marriott, and with the swirling clouds, wind, and rain, I sought out dinner options at nearby places, settling on Post 390 with its cozy fireplace. Emi was on her most lady-like behavior (give or take a bit of bread dipped in a milkshake) and we enjoyed a lovely dinner. Returning to my hotel room, I came back to champagne and candy graciously provided by the Fairmont with a sweet welcome note before heading out to visit Skip and Sherri.

I get to hang out with Skip at the condo once a year, but I never get lucky enough to see Sherri when I’m here, so that was a treat. We played a few rounds of Taboo with Mia and Jack, and soon enough Kira arrived in a maelstrom of pouring rain. We broke out some of Skip’s MacCallan, and there was no cozier place to spend a stormy evening. Outside, lightning flashed, rain pelted the windows, and the trees swayed wildly in the wind, but when good friends meet other good friends there is nothing but warmth.

By the time we were ready to return to the Fairmont, the weather had calmed. We made the quick walk back along Southwest Corridor Park and arrived in the warm glow of that beautiful lobby. We stopped in at the Oak Long Bar for a nightcap (and by nightcap I mean Crab Avocado toast and an order of fries).

The luxury of getting to walk right up to our room after our time in the Oak Long Bar is something we usually aren’t afforded. (Not that a four minute trek to the condo is such a bad deal either.) We went to sleep surrounded by opulent history, resting up for the next day.

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Tiny Threads: An Insignificant Series

“At least I’m having bowel movements, freak.”

The things one must text to co-workers these days…

Also, “TMFI.”

#TinyThreads

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