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May 2016

Boston Afternoon Vista

Whether I’m lucky enough to be lounging in the bedroom as the sun goes down, or caught in the wave of commuters rushing home, late afternoon in Boston is one of my favorite times of the day. I’m not sure why – early mornings carry their quiet charm, and midnight walks hold their own enchantment, but something about the pause in the day, the light of the almost-golden hour, and the illuminated buildings make it one of the more magical moments in a twenty-four hour trajectory.

Here, Trinity Church is lit up in all its amber-glowing splendor, backed by the building formerly known as the John Hancock Tower. (It’s called 200 Clarendon, now, I believe – which is neither better nor worse.) The juxtaposition of old and new is a telling mirror of Boston itself, and one of the reasons I love the city so much is this thrilling mash-up found around every corner.

If you examine the top left of the photos, you’ll also see the moon and an airplane cutting through the sky – another incongruous pairing, this time of timeless nature and modern-day technology, spinning around one another in dizzying contrast. That’s not just Boston – that’s the world. And that may be more food for thought than anyone can chew on an early morning like this.

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Gus Kenworthy: Naked at Noon

Gus Kenworthy has become one cheeky Olympian, and no one is more glad than the visitors here. His naked ass first appeared in his virgin Hunk of the Day post, and since then it’s been popping out all over Instagram. Apparently no one’s complaining about another nude Gus Kenworthy shot, so scroll down for more. And to think we go crazy when male celebrities go shirtless – this is whole new level of swooning.

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Post NYC Recap

The staggered posting format of this blog means that a proper recap of this recent weekend in New York will have to wait, as will other things. For now, a look back at what went on website-wise, not in real life. I prefer the latter to the former, so do the math as to my satisfaction level as I hurriedly write this.

A hot ginger led the Hunk of the Day charge. This is Steven Di Costa in his fiery debut.

Followed hot-on-his-heels by a midnight charged post of Sergey Lazarev.

Are you hungry? Try this uni and lobster in Cambridge.

In search of more heat? Here’s Eyal Berkover.

My favorite part of a party. Well, almost.

Rays of white.

How to smell like a daisy.

Daisy party garb.

A daisy birthday.

A somewhat-semi-annual Broadway excursion in effect again.

My sheer brief underwear.

A blood-sucking Hunk of the Day: Alexander Skarsgård.

The glamour! The fashion! The cologne!

And again!

The rarity of a two-time Hunk of the Day.

A beautiful bouquet is worth more than the sum of its parts.

One of my favorite Hunks of the Day in recent memory: Jacob Tomsky.

A most-fitting, and surprisingly-touching tribute from a Queen to a Prince.

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A Queen Honors A Prince

A sleeve of ruffled lace sat atop a crystal-studded cane, while a diamond cross dangled in the spotlight.

A throne of purple velvet slowly turned to reveal Madonna, resplendent in a shiny purple-and-lavender paisley suit and ethereally blonde curls. The opening notes of Prince’s own ‘Nothing Compares 2 U’ – most memorably performed by Sinead O’Connor at the dawn of the 90’s – came out of her mouth and the world wept to see the Last Great Pop Star of their generation paying tribute to a recently-fallen one.

No one could have done this better, no one could have made it mean more, and no one else was a more worthy angel for conveying Prince’s pop legacy. As tears filled her eyes, and she sang the words that suddenly rang with greater import than ever before, it was clear that this was the emotional catharsis so many of us needed – a eulogy of priceless proportion, singularly commanded by the only other performer remotely near his legendary level. When Stevie Wonder appeared and began the final walk into ‘Purple Rain’ it was an astounding tribute to an astounding icon.

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Building Beauty

A boy I once liked very much said this was one of his favorite buildings in Boston. It was after our first and only date, and he had parked right in front. There was no good-night kiss, and no interest from his part. Of course I fell in love with him right on the spot.

Now I only find it pretty in certain light. And hindsight.

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The Beautiful Balm of a Bouquet

When I was in grade school, our general music classes took place in the basement/bomb shelter of the building. As a kid, its mustiness and fluorescent interior did not bother me in the least, nor did its painted cinder-block walls and dank corners. If anything, it was an escape, not solely for the topic at hand, but for the excursion into the recesses of a building we mostly knew from above.

Our music teacher, a blonde woman whose hair changed styles from year to year (there was an especially-iffy perm circa 1986 that I remember to this day) was a piano-playing soprano who endeared herself to me with her annual presentation of ‘Peter and the Wolf’ – still a remarkable introduction for kids to the world of classical music. She doted on me in return – my boyhood voice was pretty soprano as well. I sat in the front row with a few girl friends and she would sometimes use us as an example of how to sing something in tune or in rhythm. (Yeah, I was that kid – and loved it.)

Somewhere during our seven years together at McNulty school, she started to receive bouquets of roses – once every week or so. She’d place them on the corner of her desk, and on those days her step had a brighter bounce to it, her countenance a cheerier aspect. Even her sometimes-questionable hair looked better when that bouquet stood at happy sentinel by her side. When she sang on those days, her voice soared, as if trying to match the heights of beauty that those flowers exemplified. As much as I was struck by their beauty, I was equally enthralled with the effect they had.

A bouquet of flowers changes the atmosphere.

It shifts the balance of a room.

In the case of a dark, fetid basement, it brought in an airiness that was just as good as opening a window.

In the case of a party, it is the mark of a friend.

Always, it is a work of art.

A bouquet of flowers can be as simple or as elaborate as one wishes, limited only by the imagination of the arranger. In the stunning case presented here, a rich landscape of flowers and foliage results in a fresh and vibrant pocket of paradise, a portable glimpse into a miniature world of beauty.

Comprised of a magnificent array of orchids and exquisitely-ruffled tulips that could pass as fancy roses, it is backed by feathery greens, and thrillingly accented by a pair of poppy seed pods that lend it an exotic and other-worldly splendor.

Our friend Courtney made this extraordinary bouquet, as a gracious gift of thanks for hosting JoAnn’s birthday party. I have to confess, I’ve secretly been longing for a Courtney bouquet since I sat at a table that held one of her creations a few years ago. It had sprays of mimosa in it and entranced me with its perfume and delicately designed beauty. When I saw this one, it felt like a dream come true.

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The DG Tour: Cologne Glamour Fashion ~ Part 3

A crazy perfume called Lou-Lou stands in plastic turquoise salute. It reminds me of holidays and bears named Felix from Filene’s.

Folds of colorful silk lie like pools of tranquil water, in vermillion, coral, and Granny Smith green.

Fragrance, texture, color and sentiment combine in a wave of nostalgia, yet in that moment a new memory is created. The memory of a memory.

Time is marked in outfits and pieces of clothing as much as it is marked in scent.

Summer is signaled by a floral jacket as much as the sweet neroli beneath its cuff, but there are diversions from the seasonally expected too.

Who else would wear sequins and flip flops and aviators by the pool, or to a parade for that matter?

Who would wear a kimono to a black-tie affair?

You may not be remembered for what you wore, but I’ll be damned if I don’t try.

Tom Ford knows best.

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The DG Tour: Cologne Glamour Fashion ~ Part 2

There are different delusions that see us through the day.

They need not be dark or destructive to effect change.

They need not be disturbing or devastating to make a mark.

Some delusions are grand in other ways – in their prettiness, silliness, or frivolity.

Some delusions exist only for the moment.

Some delusions are merely…fashion.

That doesn’t make them any less powerful.

Quite the contrary…

Can a shoe change the world?

Can a piece of pretty silk make a difference in a life?

Depends on the shoe.

Depends on the life.

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Midday Briefing

When faced with a nightmarish medley of wallpaper and carpet patterns, the only thing to do is don an equally-ghastly pair of briefs and strike a pose. Fortunately for you, I’m not the only guy who appears here in his tighty-not-so-whities. Check out these guys, who like their junk snug and secure.

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Back On Broadway With Mother Darling

A real-time update of The Delusional Grandeur Tour: this weekend finds me and my Mom on our semi-annual Broadway visit to New York. We’ll be seeing ‘The Humans’ and ‘Fun Home’ – and so far I’ve reserved a dinner at La Grenouille (rumor has it they have lots of flowers). As we’re in the midst of the ‘Cologne Glamour Fashion’ portion of the tour, a visit to NYC seems of opportune timing, and perhaps a Sunday brunch at the plaza followed by shopping at Bergdorf Goodman is in order.

In an effort to curb exorbitant ticket prices, and allow for some breathing room, we’ve pared it down from the trio of shows we sometimes see to just two. (Maybe we’ll return in the fall, as we so often promise to do but never quite manage.) Previous outings have included stops at Kinky Boots, Mothers & Sons, Hedwig & The Angry Inch, The Bridges of Madison County, and Pippin. I’ve chosen a low-key musical and a straight play, something we haven’t done much, but ‘The Humans’ has gotten such raves that it should rival any toe-tapping dance extravaganza out there. Stand by for a couple of reviews… and welcome back to Broadway, baby.

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A Daisy Birthday Party

My dear friend JoAnn just celebrated her birthday, and for the occasion I threw a gathering in Boston for her chosen Cape Crew. The guest list was all girls (as per request) but I’ve never shied away from female company. I’ve known most of these lovely ladies for years, so in some respects it felt like a reunion of sorts, and a very happy one at that. There’s a long history there, and I felt honored to be a small part of it.

There was a slight daisy theme running through the proceedings, in honor of one of JoAnn’s favorite flowers. A lemongrass ginger cocktail was on hand, because a single cocktail is easier than setting up a full bar. This particular cocktail is as easy as they come: 2 parts vodka or gin, ½ part lemongrass-ginger simple syrup, then top with seltzer to your liking. Garnish with a stick of lemongrass. (I saved a bunch from last season’s garden, frozen in a zip-lock freezer bag.)

As already explained, the wardrobe was a simple one, and the only fanciness was to be found in this selection of whimsical straws.

Kira had arrived the evening before to help put things in order, and we toasted our friends en route.

It was, as always, the people who made the party, and JoAnn has a great group of friends in her life. She’s always been good at that. People grow and leave, lives change, and sometimes you have to let go whether you want to or not, but that’s the ebb and flow of life and friendship. Such fluidity keeps things interesting.

Sarah made this amazing cake – a carrot cake with extra pizzazz, and I mean it: this thing was packed with moist, rich flavor and a cream cheese frosting to-die-for. (I’m not ashamed to say I had some for breakfast the next day.)

In the end, it was the guests that mattered, and the fun that transpired whenever JoAnn’s friends get together. Let’s do it again!

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Simple Daisy Party Garb

Some parties are smaller affairs, designed for the enjoyment and interaction of guests. Less attention is paid to details like wardrobe and decorations, less emphasis is placed on surroundings, and the simple gathering of good friends is more than ample entertainment. Far from the sprawling excess and outrageous ensembles of holiday and summer parties, these little get-togethers call for something quieter, where the only thing that raises its voice – and then only slightly – is the color of the pants and maybe a matching choker. And when you find the latter for $5 at an H&M bargain bin, you know you’re golden.

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Daisy by Marc Jacobs

The sad truth is that the classic daisy carries no fragrance. Anyone who brings their nose to the bright blooms expecting some sort of cheerful scent to match their petal-framed faces will be sorely disappointed. Thankfully, we have Marc Jacobs to fill that fragrance-free void. His ‘Daisy’ scent was the accent these flowers so badly needed, and though I’m not the biggest fan of florals, Jacobs manages to keep the sickly-sweet components at bay.

Being that there is no true daisy scent, he goes for the essence of bright and fresh, wisely veering away from any single flower fragrance (rose, gardenia, tuberose) or cloying heaviness. Somehow it works, even if the lighter touch doesn’t lend it much staying power. More like a body spray than anything approaching a perfume, it’s a decent match-up for warmer weather, when potent scents tend to overwhelm.

Judging from its myriad offshoots, ‘Daisy’ must have been a hit for Mr. Jacobs. There are a number of variations on it currently out there, some supposedly even fresher than the oh-so-fresh original.

The trend for sister fragrances is not one of which I’m particularly enamored. Tom Ford has been doing that with all of his Neroli Portofino cousins, and as much as I love a twist on neroli, I’d rather he try something different. His Oud line is slightly more varied, but even that seems to have reached its limit. Still, I’d rather give his side-shoots a whirl over another Daisy.

Sometimes a single Daisy is more than enough.

The bottle comes adorned with classic Marc Jacobs flair – in this case a piece of daisy pop-art that doubles as a cover. It’s a lovely embodiment of a fun fragrance that finally gives the daisy a scent of its own.

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Daisy, Daisy

“Behold
the azure sea in front of you,
the turquoise sky above you,
the amber mountain beneath your feet,
and the golden daisy in your hands.
How are you not the richest person on earth?”
― Khang Kijarro Nguyen

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Rays of White

These interesting little mums are a different take on the daisy, and as such I had to include them in a vase for a daisy-themed get-together for my friend JoAnn. I like the way they collectively create such star-shooting movement. The rays of their white petals, the yellow radial form of their central orb, and the linear structure of their stems combine in thrilling fashion to conjure an effect much larger than expected. When dealing with simpler blooms, sometimes less is more. What would be lost as filler in grander schemes manages to steal the show on such a singular stage.

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