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September 2012

Las Vegas – The Last Minute Reprieve

Rescuing the tail end of the trip, the hallways of the Wynn and Encore provided a perfect resting stop for the hours before my plane departed. In the midst of the garish, over-bloated heat and hype of Vegas, there were glimpses of paradise here. The crowds parted in these long lobby-like spaces, and with no conventions in sight, the emptiness and quiet were a brief bit of relief.

After making it through the weekend, (and winning one more round of Roulette) I decided to treat myself to a celebratory cocktail at Parasol Down.

Drawn in by the colorful umbrage of a multitude of hanging parasols, I descended to the bar area, where the afternoon sun was beating down outside the windows, backed by a waterfall. It’s one of the wonders of Las Vegas that in the middle of the desert there is all this water – in the fountains, the waterfalls, the pools… and yet none of it is natural.

A pretty server with piercing blue eyes and dark hair brings me a cocktail menu and I decide on her recommendation – the Pear-A-Sol. Made up of Absolut Pears vodka, Belle Paire Pear liqueur, pear puree, and sweet & sour mix, it is a dream – like drinking the sweetest pear in liquid form.

It is the perfect ending to a perhaps-less-than-perfect weekend in Las Vegas. And then it is time to leave.

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Ryan Phillippe’s Bare Butt, Then & Now

This is Ryan Phillippe’s ass, as recently seen on ‘Damages’ (which I’m told is a television show). A couple of observations: I never realized Mr. Phillippe’s film career was such that he was on television, but in a way it makes sense. I’ve always thought him annoyingly inept at acting, unless it was with his ass, which is why limited shots like this work so well.

The other thing I noticed is that he’s still in remarkable shape, at least where it counts. Compare the above shot with the one below, taken about thirteen years ago, and tell me you don’t feel the slightest twinge of envy that we all can’t age so gracefully.

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Humpbacks for Hump Day

In case you missed my previous Whale of a Tale post, here are a few (very short) videos of our whale watch excursion on our last trip to Provincetown. I still get chills watching these magnificent creatures break the surface.

Majestic and moving.

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The Gay Divers

Way back in 1995, I was just beginning to come out as a gay man. I wasn’t even old enough to drink, and in that tenderness of youth I had no idea what I was doing. I devoured any remotely gay book I could find, starting with the Greg Louganis autobiography, ‘Breaking the Surface’.

He had just come out as an HIV positive gay man, and his story was a riveting one. I might not have been able to relate much to the discipline of becoming an Olympic Gold Medalist, but I could totally understand the coming out portion, especially at that particular moment in my life.

To read about someone as respected and accomplished as Mr. Louganis, and to know that he had gone through something similar, was incredibly moving and powerful. Whenever anyone questions the relevance and reasons of public figures coming out, I think back to that time, and how reading about other gay men absolutely galvanized me.

Now I see that Matthew Mitcham has an autobiography coming out at the end of the year, entitled appropriately enough ‘Twists & Turns’. As another gay Olympic Gold Medalist, he’s an inspiration for those just coming out today. I may be at a different point in my life, but I can’t wait to read it.

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Make Me Squeal

At about this time (okay, probably two hours after this time) Madonna will be taking to the stage in Boston for her MDNA Tour, and I will be shrieking in my high-pitched teenage-girl squeal that I adopt when these sorts of events come up. Andy will be looking at me and laughing. And then we will both be watching the Queen put on the Greatest Show on Earth.

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L-I-V-E Madonna!

Today’s the day! Madonna comes to Boston ~ my favorite performer in my favorite city. Bow down bitches.

If you’ve ever wanted to hear me scream like a girl, come within 50 feet of North Station tonight.

 

 

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Touched for the Very First Time

You always remember your first time. In my case, it was about eleven years ago, at what was then called the FleetCenter in Boston. Yes, the old Boston Garden is where I popped my Madonna Concert cherry, right next to Suzie, who was squealing along with me in high-pitched shrieks and girlish giggles. It was the Drowned World Tour in the summer of 2001, and as the lights went down and she rose into view, singing my favorite Madonna song of all-time, I froze, and my eyes welled up just a little bit. After idolizing and adoring this woman all of my life – literally from the age of ten (‘Material Girl’ was one of the first songs I was cognizant of remembering) – she now stood before me, alive and in the flesh, and I thought of all that had brought us both to that moment.

It remains, mostly for sentimental reasons, my favorite Madonna tour. It was heavy on songs from her best album to date, ‘Ray of Light’, and it was my very first time seeing her, so the whole evening had a magic to it that has yet to be topped. I would have more fun at other tours (Confessions), but Drowned World would be the standard to which all of them would slightly fail to measure up. She even sang ‘You’ll See’ that night – one of my top ten Madonna songs – in place of the usual (and lackluster) ‘Gone’ – marking the second moment I almost lost it.

The thought of this lady, then a newly-married mother of two, standing alone on that stage, commanding the love and adoration of millions, yet still feeling her way through heartbreak and abandonment – it moved me in the way that she so often does, in the way that no one quite seems to fully understand, and in a way I’ll keep close to my heart because it doesn’t deserve to be so publicly analyzed.

Tonight marks the 8th time I’m seeing her live in concert, and I’m certain I’ll feel the same thrill, as I’ve felt the same anticipation for the previous weeks. From the clips I’ve seen of the show, it’s going to be killer…

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Spice Up Your Life

Tom Ford’s latest cologne, Noir, is set to debut in October, and while I’m not the biggest fan of traditional Noir scents, this one may make me a believer. Billed as having top notes of bergamot, verbena, caraway, pink pepper and violet; middle notes of black pepper, nutmeg, tuscan iris, geranium, bulgarian rose and clary sage; and base notes of opoponax, amber, indonesian patchouli leaf, vetiver, civet and vanilla – this may very well be spicy concoction that takes over for Viktor & Rolf’s ‘Spicebomb’ this Fall season.

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The Shameless Exhibitionist

“Many different kinds of people can be exhibitionists, but they all have one thing in common: They have trouble believing in themselves. They require proof that they can thrill. Their actions are almost always based on the fantasy that seeing is believing. [Exhibitionism] arises at a stage in development when you believe that if others see something about you, it must be true.” ~ P. Mezan

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I Did A Little Dance

This is how I felt upon seeing The Writing page installed this morning. Oh, and this too.

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It’s Always Been About the Words

Behold the latest stroke of genius by Webmaster Skip in the form of The Writing portal, now seen in the navigation bar of this website. More than photography and Projects, fashion and accessories, it’s always come down to the writing for me. Words will continue to be the most important tools we have for connecting to each other, and in the end that’s the whole point of the internet, at least this little part of it.

Please take a look at The Writing page and check out the fabulous layout Skip has set up. You’ll note that currently we are a bit Madonna-heavy on the content, in celebration of her MDNA Tour (and I cannot wait to add that review to the pantheon). We’ve also edited down the number of articles, so as not to overwhelm or utilize mediocre filler. What remains are a select few of my favorites.

“I have hated words and I have loved them, and I hope I have made them right.” Markus Zusak

“Words! Mere words! How terrible they were! How clear, and vivid, and cruel! One could not escape from them. And yet what a subtle magic there was in them! They seemed to be able to give a plastic form to formless things, and to have a music of their own as sweet as that of viol or of lute. Mere words! Was there anything so real as words?” Oscar Wilde

 

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Gay Sports, And How to Top a Jockstrap

This shot of Rob Gronkowski chasing Tom Brady reminded me of all the fun we had during Superbowl Sunday this year (remember when I thought Tebowing was some fancy version of Teabagging?), and puts me in the mood for creating a similar celebration for the World Series. (Yes, I realize they are two different sports.) Being that I’ve already donned a jockstrap for that fateful day, I’m not sure how much more I can up the ante. At least we’ve got better props with which to work – wooden bats, more manageable balls, and catcher’s mitts.

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Back to Boston

Not that I’ve ever needed a reason to return to Boston (again and again), but when Madonna’s in town, well, it’s a given that I’ll be in town. Though I’ve passed the fanatical devotion that allowed me to recognize Cloud and Tamara on Boylston Street when the Confessions Tour rolled around in the summer of 2006, I still get a major thrill from seeing my favorite performer live. (Sad to say I wouldn’t know one of her dancers if I met them on the street this time around… and if anyone knows anything about the elusive Mr. Hobby, please let Suzie know… her daughter claims he was a teacher at her school or something, and I guess we’re trying to determine who was lying.) At any rate, we’ll be back in Boston today, and just in the nick of time – I’ve been craving a Zuni Roll from the Parish Cafe.

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Madonna & A Monday Massage

Tomorrow Andy and I return to Boston, for the return of Madonna and her MDNA Tour. Needless to say, I am very excited, but I’m also slightly deflated as our seats appear to be behind the stage… or with a very limited side view. No matter, we’ve seen her before, and I’ll see her again in NYC, so we’ll just dance and sing to the music.

Before that, however, a bit of Labor Day relaxation in the form of another massage. It is said that true peace and contentment can only be found within, and there is surely something to the practices and benefits of yoga and meditation and simple exercise – but I’m after a quicker, lazy-man’s version of this – the kind of inner peace and tranquility that can only be found in a massage, where the work is all done at the hands of someone else. To that lovely end, I’ve scheduled a session at ‘etant: A Spa for Well Being‘ in the South End. It’s just a few blocks away from our place, and the perfect entry back into Boston. I’m not sure how it will compare to the heights of ecstasy found at the Mandarin Oriental, but any massage is better than no massage.

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